Seems like I can find no scholarships pertaining to me - an average upper-middle class white male

I’d stick to FAMU, rather than Tuskegee, at this point.
Companies don’t differentiate based on university for their salaries. Different companies recruit at different colleges and not all colleges have the same resources and opportunities, but if the program is ABET-accredited, you’re okay.
For now, apply, and see where that gets you.