(edited - just saw your stats on first page of the thread)
A good friend of mine has a son at UMass-Lowell on a full tuition scholarship, he only has to pay room and board.
He had close to a 4.0 in high school, but if there’s a full-triton scholarship, there are lesser awards that might help you out…
I think you should take a look outside New England at this point too. Especially at the midwestern and southern schools…
U of Alabama-Huntsville was mentioned; what about Louisiana Tech? Ohio University in Athens OH gives out merit until February, I think.
Honestly, I’d look into every directional state college with Engineering, that gives merit scholarships, between the East Coast and half a day’s drive from home.
I think the general wisdom is that, with Engineering, it really doesn’t matter so much where you go to school, and… in general, the less debt one graduates with, the better off you will be after graduating.