Thank you so much Marian for your honest reply and for everyone else I can only apologize and as I said I knew I was posting at a risk of sounding ungrateful.
I am glad I posted as this is reassuring. I know some of us who apply ED always have that what if factor and by the way my son is very happy with his selection.I being a mother always worry.
Just as a side I was only born in India and have not lived there since the age of 4 and I am proud to currently call Wisconsin my home.