To start, I know that this is a decision I need to make for myself. I know that no one can make it for me. This is partially to get my thoughts down and partially to receive input from people hopefully more experienced with Early Decision.
Just to give you an idea of my background, I am a Latina planning on majoring in computer science. My family has pretty high financial need (they can probably contribute max $10K plus my self help and stuff).
This past weekend (Friday to Sunday), I attended Smithâs Women of Distinction program. Iâve been to three other fly-ins (Harvey Mudd, Hamilton, and MIT) and have also visited the other Claremont colleges (while staying at Mudd), Bryn Mawr, Swarthmore, UPenn, and Rutgers. I loved a lot of the schools I visited (Mudd, Scripps, Bryn Mawr, and Hamilton also secured places on my list), but Smith felt different. I feel like I could be happy at any of those schools, but when I left Smith, I had this burning desire to be a Smithie that I hadnât experienced at the other schools. That isnât to say that the moment I stepped onto Smithâs campus I had this epiphany and knew it was where I belonged, but it kind of clicked some point on Saturday.
When I got home, I brought up the idea of Early Decision to my parents. I think ED is a good option for me because I feel like I belong at Smith, we would be able to afford it (according to the net price calculator), it might help me get in, and I kind of want to be finished with the college application process ASAP. My mom seemed okay with it, but my dad said something along the lines of âYouâve worked so hard to have options, and Early Decision would be taking away those options.â We came to the agreement that I should talk to my guidance counselor and reevaluate once the initial excitement has worn off. This morning, I met with my guidance counselor (Iâd already had an appointment set up prior to visiting Smith), and brought up Early Decision. She seemed to think it was a good idea as long as I know thatâs where I want to go. She also understood that Smith is a hard school to get into, and even though my application is very strong, this could help me get in, something that my dad didnât really get.
The agreement I came to with my guidance counselor is to talk to my parents again, call the financial aid office and discuss some more uncommon aspects of our financial profile, and get my application together while still doing overnights and visiting other schools (I wouldnât submit until a day or two before the deadline).
Does anyone have any input? Maybe their experience with ED? How understanding is Smith when it comes to backing out of an ED agreement due to insufficient aid?