<p>From what I know, my dad makes around $350K a year. I’m not sure what our assets are, but they are pretty high. The reason I am surprised to find out that I will not be receiving much financial aid is that I am positive $200K over the next 4 years is a lot of money, even with such a high EFC.</p>
<p>:) Ok…you’re a smart guy…do the math…during that SAME four years that your parents would be paying out $200k, they will have MADE $1.4 MILLION dollars. So, yeah, paying out $200k should be NO BIG DEAL for them. That still leaves them $1.2 Million over 4 years. Do you realize that during the same 4 years, MOST families have earned $400k or less. Does that make sense now?</p>
<p>Seriously, you’re a smart guy…(and I don’t mean to be harsh), but don’t sound like you can’t do basic easy math in your head to realize WHY your family does NOT deserve any aid. </p>
<p>S*ince this is the case, are you saying my only hope for financial aid is from merit scholarships? I am a NMSF, but I don’t think that will award much money. As for colleges themselves, how would I get a merit scholarship and be able to afford going to a school like Caltech? Thanks. *</p>
<p>Ok…more shocking news (and this is YOUR PARENTS fault if they had no intention of paying $200k for your education). There is no way that they should have been letting you think that you’d be able to go to CalTech, etc (schools that don’t give merit). </p>
<p>Your parents have been WELL AWARE of their earnings. THEY are WELL AWARE that they make more money than 99.9999999% of American families. Unless they have pea-brains (which I don’t think they have - I think they are smart people) there would be NO REASON for them to think that people who have their incomes would get ONE CENT of financial aid.</p>
<p>I have a brother who makes a little bit more than what your dad does. He has 3 kids in private universities. THEY GET NO AID AT ALL. He has to pay full freight for 3 kids. </p>
<p>My sis pays full freight for 2 kids (one at Vandy and one at Tufts). </p>
<p>So…now…what to do… (harsh talk over… )</p>
<p>Ask your dad how much he’ll pay. </p>
<p>Unless he says, $50k per year, schools like Cal Tech and such are now “off the table”. Yes, you can submit a couple of those apps, but unless your parents PAY you will NOT be going to those schools.</p>
<p>NOW…if your parents give you an amount less than $50k per year, you must QUICKLY apply to some schools that will give you enough merit that with your parents contribution, you’ll have your costs covered.</p>
<p>Don’t let your ego get in the way right now… many of these schools have Dec 1st deadlines for scholarships, so don’t let your ego stop you from applying. Right now, you need to cover your tush in case your parents aren’t going to pay.</p>
<p>So…find out how much they’ll pay and come back here. (if they agree to the $55k per year, then awesome…problem solved!!)</p>