Should I take a gap year, try to transfer, etc.?

<p>Okay, I haven't posted on here for forever, being busy during the school year with the IB Diploma, college admissions, social life. etc. But now that I have graduated and received my IB Diploma, I have a lot of questions about my future college plans.</p>

<p>First, I applied to many selective schools such as Yale, Princeton, Columbia, and Georgetown. While I was denied from the first 2, I was waitlisted and eventually denied from the latter 2 among others. I got into a few other schools, some of which were too expensive, and am ready to go off to my safety school (state flagship). Despite it having good academics, I never saw myself going to a huge, public school. I've always dreamt of going to a more prestigious, academically rigorous place with a student body more like myself (that type a personality, top 10% in high school, leader of clubs type of student..)</p>

<p>Anyways, when I got my IB Diploma results, I was happy to see that I got a 40 out of 45 total. While I should be proud of my accomplishments, I feel a bit bummed as if my diploma scores would have made me stand out a bit more during the college admissions process. While the IB Diploma obviously doesn't work miracles, I wonder deep down if colleges knowing my perfect 6/7 scores would have helped me gain admission and shown how much I truly knew and was prepared for the tough academics of college. </p>

<p>Furthermore, I also have always dreamt of going to school abroad in England because I love the country, but never went through with applying to any schools out there. I wonder now if I should take a risk, go off the beaten path, and maybe take a gap year and apply to schools again next year. A lot of students in the Uk take a gap year and start university at 19, so its not like I'd be behind if I did go abroad. I also have many personal reasons why I'd like to take a gap year which I won't get into, but there are quite a few logical and good reasons why I should, and not just to gain worldly experiences working/volunteering...that sort of thing. I also know that IB is highly regarded more so in UK admissions than US admissions, and like I have a better shot over there. </p>

<p>My question is....is it worth it? I'm already enrolled in college, went to summer welcome, and my parents think I have moved on; however, I worry that I will never be able to get over this unless I do the whole college admissions process over the way I always wanted to and now can because I have my IB results which help a lot in UK admissions.</p>

<p>Am I crazy for thinking this? Am I unknowingly on the verge of throwing my life away for a pathetic dream and desire to NOT go to college this year. I feel like its too late to do anything about it now, and like nobody will understand. Its like people expect me to not take a gap year because I was valedictorian and whatnot, but I just want a chance to go to a better school for me and one far away in the UK...I don't know how to explain it, but I feel like I won't be happy stuck at my current college, and I never should have kept my dream of going abroad a secret...</p>

<p>Any advice whatsoever?</p>

<p>How would you afford a school in the UK? Would your parents be willing to help pay for you to go to college in the UK?</p>

<p>I doubt if your excellent IB scores will help you gain entrance to schools in the U.S. that turned you down this year. If you don’t want to go to your flagship, but want to try to go to well regarded private schools that you could afford and that may accept you, then take a gap year and do something productive with your time such as working or volunteering fulltime.</p>

<p>There are plenty of students with high class ranks and excellent IB scores at flagship state universities.</p>

<p>I guess I sound crazy but I say- go for it. You will always regret it if you didn’t take the chance.</p>

<p>I agree. Taking a gap year is becoming more and more popular as long as you can afford it and college in the UK.</p>

<p>Pardon my ignorance here; I think this sort of thing is possible for French students, so thought I’d make the suggestion: Can you attend your state flagship this year (or semester) and still apply to UK colleges as a first-year student for next year? The end result would be pretty much the same as taking a gap year, only the pressure would be off while you’re preparing your application. Maybe a possibility to look into.</p>