I have a feeling that when it’s all said and done, she’s going to wind up at College Park U Md because it’s going to be your only financially feasible option, be happy there, and do just fine there. But let’s look at the rest of the list. Virtually every private school that you have listed is not low down enough on the admissions scale to offer her significant merit money - you have to be looking at schools with at least 65% acceptance rates for them to be offering her merit money. She’ll get in, but they won’t offer her enough merit money to bring it anywhere near her cost at College Park MD. The less selective the private college, the more likely she is to be offered merit money.
Tulane is a great place for Jewish students. Problem is money.
Oberlin is in the middle of nowhere, has a hyper left wing atmosphere that has bled over into antisemitism. Many Jewish alums no longer support Oberlin. I would not have sent my child there. And I don’t think they’ll offer her merit money.
Trinity is in an inner-city high crime slum area. Doubt they’d offer her merit money.
Muhlenberg has a substantial Jewish population. If they offered her a lot of merit money, might work, but I don’t think that her stats are that much above their usual admitted student for them to offer her big money.
NOT HAMPSHIRE! Hampshire is a great school for highly self-directed students who want to design their own program. Not the place for premeds.
I think that if she’s looking for significant merit money, she has to look at significantly less selective schools. She could consider U Hartford, which has a strong Jewish studies dep’t, and a significant Jewish population. The campus is safe, they have all the sciences she needs, she will be able to get straight A’s there, and there are a number of hospitals nearby where she could gain volunteer experience, or even work part time as, say, a phlebotomist. Plus the town it borders, West Hartford, has a great Jewish community. U Hartford will likely offer her big merit money. If she’s absolutely set on medicine, she definitely could get into med school from there, if she gets a high GPA and high MCAT score. But if it were my child, I’d send them to U Md.