So I talked to my cute teacher today who i asked out in email.

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<p>So anyways I had class today and I talked to her about the email I sent her, after class when everyone left. I told her honestly why I sent the email is because I didn't feel I should ask her out at school hence why I asked her out outside of class. She told me it was okay, but that indeed it would be inappropriate she said. I was honest with her and told her she seems like a nice girl, and that I like girls older than me and just wanted to get to know her better. She said that was nice of me what I said about her and in the email, but that she's sorry she can't.</p>

<p>She said I'm not going to get in trouble, but just don't let it happen again.</p>

<p>She was pretty cool about it actually. She did seem a little uneasy talking about it, but otherwise she was not ****ed, but was serious she would appreciate it not happen again.</p>

<p>I feel better now at least I told her personally how I feel about her.</p>

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<p>If you are being serious… you need help</p>

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<p>You’re lucky she didn’t get you in trouble. Writing her that email was a really poor decision and it’s just fortunate she was cool with it. Now it’ll be awkward in that class for the rest of the semester for both of you. </p>

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<p>■■■■■.</p>

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<p>LOL. Late 30s is not old and she doesn’t look her age. I told her I thought she was more mid 30s.</p>

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<p>Also why was it a poor decision? I saw a single girl I was interested in and asked her out.</p>

<p>Why would it be akward the rest of the semester?</p>

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<p>LOOOOOOOOOL please i hope you’re ■■■■■■■■. Otherwise…all i can is that you’re a desperate loser that needs some help. That’s pretty messed up asking your prof. out …awkward…creepy… SMH…</p>

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<p>It doesn’t matter if she looks 13, she’s your professor. And how could it NOT be awkward? You asked her out and now if you need to go to her office hours or something she’ll be wary to talk to you for fear of the same thing happening again. </p>

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<p>■■■■■.</p>

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<p>I’m not a ■■■■■, and why does she have to be affraid of me asking her again?</p>

<p>I wont ask again, and why should she be affraid to talk to me for now on?</p>

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<p>Hey man I see nothig wrong with anything you hve done. You both handled it well but ya it’ll be awkward, anytime a girl rejects someone or vise versa it’s gonna be awkward.</p>

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<p>LOL… on to the next girl… uh… I meant professor.</p>

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<p>LOL 10char</p>

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<p>I mean I don’t see why she couldn’t have agreed to go out once. I mean if I didn’t tell anybody noone at school would know.</p>

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<p>why is it so wrong for a college student to ask out a professor? their both grown adults and can find a way to make it work in a mature manner. all of you bashing him are the ones that are acting like children.</p>

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<p>Agree. I’m going to drop it with her so I dont get in trouble, but I think it’s overboard that teachers can’t date students.</p>

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<p>^ well it probably has to do with unfair grading, especially if they grade on a curve. but what they don’t know cant hurt ya ;)</p>

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<p>Anyone who still believes he is “real” clearly hasn’t read the last thread…</p>

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<p>It isn’t fair to anyone involved for teachers to date their students…think of the unfair advantage you get over your classmates. Besides, if she were to lose her job over it, that would be pretty awful too.</p>

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<p>I agree with your sentiments, onegoal. I also appreciate how intelligently and candidly you have handled your situation. :)</p>

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<p>I wonder what everyone would be saying if you weren’t currently her student and asked her out.</p>

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<p>I guess his “one goal” was to get in his professor’s pants.</p>