<p>A year off, programs like americorp (never ever discussed in our hs),vocational programs, 2 year community colleges-all definitely not encouraged. They want to boast that 98% of their hs grads are sitting in 4 year colleges! This is vital in keeping up home prices, and what the taxpayer and homeowner wants. I can name 1 person in our hs who went to a vocational program, and ..</p>
<p>I understand this.</p>
<p>Maybe an advantage of not having a college degree myself, I wanted better for my child & since she had attended schools where * she was the diversity*, we didn't feel like we had to stick with the mainstream.</p>
<p>Just graduating high school and doing well- was more than her dad or I ever did, so anything beyond that was just icing.
However- I also know lots of people who paid full tuition at Oberlin, U Chicago etc, but their kids also saved money by attending community college for two years or by using running start credits.</p>
<p>I think perhaps the people I know are more pragmatic. I don't think that the 5 years after high school are the only time when you can attend college.</p>
<p>I know a few people who identified their passion early on & have continued on that path through college, post doc- and beyond.</p>
<p>But I know many more others who, practiced law and were successful financially, but are now in school to become an educator. Physicians who developed issues that forced them into different aspects of the field, engineers who are loving their landscaping business.</p>
<p>Encouraging your child to be a different drummer, to find what makes the most sense for him, will pay off dividends for the rest of his life.</p>
<p>Trying to do what is expected, just to fit in- or because it is easy, isn't very satisfying and often is frustrating and exhausting.</p>
<p>The period of time in which many of us were raised- when you had 2.5 children, bought a new car every 10 years, and retired with a pension, is over. </p>
<p>Single family homes are being replaced with condos, a big percentage of city residents have lived here 5 years or less, and most people are going to change careers, let alone companies, more times than their grandparents could imagine.</p>
<p>It's great if kids go to college right from high school, but it also may be more appropriate for them to do something a little different.</p>
<p>( my youngest doesn't have her license, even though I have been encouraging her too, she doesn't have time to practice- my oldest attended college in a town with great public transportation on purpose & didn't get her license till she graduated college)</p>