<p>You need to speak to your sons about their grades and somehow let them know that the choices they are making now might preclude them from opportunities later. Are they in over their heads with their courses? Have you or them considered tutoring?</p>
<p>As a mother of twins, we started college visits very early. It was a great way for them to see what they needed to do in order to attain their dream. It is a different ballgame with twins…much more intense. The process needs to be started much earlier than with a single child, however, your guys sound like they need to understand what the process is all about.</p>