<p>We found all of them helpful, actually. (Although, they were slightly more helpful for excluding than for including or reinforcing.) One of the aspects I found most illuminating was the presence of alumni: the kind of people the alumni were, their statements about why they chose the school, statements about how they believed that college made a difference in their lives, what it did for them, and even the comments about that college vs. others – all of those elements were important.</p>
<p>For example, at the rep event for one Elite, an alum compared his alma mater in a condescending way to a very reach public. First of all, the comment showed an ignorance about the other highly visible school, which a well-informed person should know about. Secondly the comment was along the lines of “quality people go to privates; low-lifes go to publics.” It revealed a very sheltered understanding of the real world, and i.m.o. my D would have nothing in common with that. A real turn-off. The other members of that same alum panel looked really, really stressed out, and were (therefore) not convincing about what a supposedly Utopian experience they had had there.</p>
<p>A different negative example was at a lovely LAC event, fine school. These alumni were all very, very introverted and dullsville/mousy, while describing the LAC as totally perfect for them. Since my D is quite the opposite of either dull or introverted, this was certainly quite a wake-up call.</p>
<p>A positive example was an Ivy event which described uniquely how the actual decisions are made. Very fascinating, & made me (and I think D) respect the school all the more, for providing the info, and for describing the dignified decision process.</p>
<p>There were 3 other events we went to which didn’t persuade so much as provide information not available in other formats. Any organization which selects a rep (especially an adult) tends to choose a person quite reflective of the “message” or the culture of the place, so I did find that the presenter provided nonverbal info about the campus which was important to consider. Again, most often it helped to identify fit vs. non-fit.</p>
<p>EDIT: I just re-read this & realized it may sound as if my Ds’ college decisions were overly based on these visits. No, definitely not. But when there was missing info or we couldn’t quite grasp the overall atmosphere & attraction of a campus, the rep visits helped to fill in gaps & forestall regrets over decisions (or results). For us, visits were very helpful, even though they were a minor part of the process, compared to other research, personal visits, & all the various stages of the application process.</p>