My son is an athlete being recruited by both Muhlenberg and St. Lawrence for his sport. The coaches at both schools would like him to apply ED. He is torn. He likes both coaches and liked both schools. Wasn’t sure about the social life at Muhlenberg and is concerned it may be “boring” like his boarding school is now. Also isn’t sure about going to St. Lawrence because it is isolated and far from home (which is something he doesn’t like about his current boarding school). My son is not a “big” confident personality - he’s sweet, but has social anxiety so I worry that he needs a welcoming, accepting environment and both schools sound like they have that, but I’ve heard St. Lawrence can tend to have a lot of kids with “big egos.” Academically, both schools seem quite similar…Any opinions out there about either school in terms of student body, campus life, etc.??
St Lawrence has more of an outdoorsy, athletic vibe, with lots of kids taking advantage of the local outdoor and sporty type activities. You’ll find the non-athletes at St Lawrence more athletic than the non-athletes at Muhlenberg. The sports are more competitive at St Lawrence too. Muhlenberg is in a suburban community, so it’s not going to feel isolated at all. There is a large % of Jewish kids at Muhlenberg, while St Lawrence will have a more (though not exclusively by any means) waspy/boarding school feel. Academics could be considered similar, but Muhlenberg more artsy and also big for pre-med types. Frats at Muhlenberg are not out of control by any means. St Lawrence would have more of a party reputation.
The fine St. Lawrence will offer something of a NESCAC feel, should this mean much to you. Some of your observations regarding SLU might be true – as would those directly above, “party reputation” would not be far-fetched – but they may also only categorize a fraction, even if a sizable one, of the student body. Overall, this school could be a great opportunity.
Sorry for the late reply, I just found this website minutes ago. You’ve probably already made a decision at this point , but I’ll add my 2 cents. I agree with all the comments, but it is ultimately up to your son and what feels right for him. My daughter is in her 1st year at SLU and plays basketball. Absolutely loves it! It is a bit isolated, but that really helps in making it a close knit community. Muhlenberg simply didn’t feel right for her. Good Luck…