<p>I'm in the Princeton Class of 2010, and I'd like to clarify a couple of things.</p>
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Also, I get the impression that very little new blood is coming into the ivies because they are so focused on 5 generation alums, endowments, etc. But mostly, I think Stanford is where the cutting edge research, the "here and now" is. Ivies seem to put an emphasis on "oh look, I'm at an ivy league school" while Stanford students are the doers, the researchers, the entrepreneurs, and the first in line to tackle the worlds biggest problems.
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This is definitely not true (at Princeton anyway). Perhaps in the old days, Princeton was somewhat staid; nowadays, Princeton as an institution is just as much on the move as Stanford. The administration is constantly pushing for new initiatives to expand arts and science programs, maintain and improve student life, and pour ever more research/summer resources on undergrads. While Stanford's proximity to Silicon Valley helps in technology innovation, Princeton's proximity to NYC and long history helps in financial, political, and arts innovations. As for students, I'm a first generation college student for example. The Princeton student body is no less diverse than Stanford's.</p>
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There are tons of social opportunities on the weekends that don't involve drinking. I've never felt at all pressured to drink at Stanford. (This may be different at Princeton, I'm not a student there, so I wouldn't know)
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I do not drink at all, and I know a great number of other Princetonians that also do not. And among those who do drink, there isn't any pressure at all on everyone else to drink. It really is not a problem. :)</p>
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For me, the biggest thing that I don't like (and keep in mind this is a personal preference, some people may be the opposite) is the constant professional atmosphere - the competition and class-based society. Most people I know that come from the east coast, including my P interviewer, always mentioned a somewhat pervasive class-based attitude. Even after she left college, in meeting other people, one of the first questions exchanged was always "so where did you go to school?"
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Competition at Princeton is not cutthroat at all (especially compared to schools such as UC Berkeley). Most classes actually encourage collaboration, even for subjects you might think are single-person-type endeavors (like computer programming).</p>
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I found out yesterday that there's another friend of the family who went to Princeton and hated it... I think for this friend it was a social thing, they just felt really out of place in Princeton's social scene, probably in large part because of all the eating clubs. I think my friend probably wasn't crazy about the eating clubs, although I imagine that's less of a big deal to her. She has had a really awful time with the math department there. I imagine there's other stuff too, I've just heard her complain a lot about the math department in particular. I've also heard (I'm not entirely sure how accurate this is, this is through a high school teacher from my high school who I trust to both know these things and tell the truth) that students are very competitive and will steal each others notes, etc. I have no clue if that's true, you'd probably want a second source to confirm that. I just haven't heard of people going to Princeton and having a good experience there.
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The social scene at Princeton often does have to do with the eating clubs, but it's not a problem: I might not be a particular fan of the eating clubs, but the fact that they are all in a certain location means they don't affect my social life in any way unless I go to them. And I like having this choice. People definitely do NOT steal each other's notes! That sounds like UC Berkeley.</p>
<p>I, for one, am definitely enjoying my time at Princeton - and I don't know anyone at Princeton who isn't. :)</p>
<p>Princeton's dorms are really nice - the Gothic architecture of the dorms is really beautiful (and I personally think living in a castle with modern conveniences is pretty cool), and I have friends from U Penn that are shocked to see that our singles are as big as their doubles.</p>
<p>As for weather...first, I have lived in southern California - which has probably the mildest and best weather in the U.S. if not the world - for my entire life. So weather was a factor for me too. But now that I've lived through a winter at Princeton, I would say it was not so bad at all. In fact, I loved it - Princeton has the mildest weather of the Ivies (being in the mid-Atlantic rather than New England region) and still has snow, which is actually really fun in moderate amounts (which is what you would get at Princeton). The snow-covered campus is one of the loveliest sights to behold. And when spring comes, the cherry blossoms bloom, and the campus is gorgeous (but in a different way).</p>
<p>As for majors, you sound well balanced. Physics, math, and engineering/natural sciences at Princeton are very, very strong, so you would have a good time with those subjects. But Princeton's economics, social sciences, and humanities departments are also top-notch (much stronger than, I would venture, Stanford's social sciences and humanities departments).</p>
<p>Also, the International Center and Taiwanese Students Association at Princeton are both very active groups, so you would definitely feel at home. :)</p>
<p>It would be very helpful if you visited and saw everything for yourself!</p>