<p>A few important specific differences that contribute to the different “feels” of the two colleges. (I won’t get into who has what “over” whom. I know smart, reasonable people who have chosen each over the other and been happy with their choices.)</p>
<p>In lots of ways, Stanford is fairly engineering-centric. Stanford and Harvard are the same size, but Stanford has almost five times the number of engineering and computer science majors as Harvard (also ten times the number of environmental studies majors). Engineers are to Stanford what Wharton students are to Penn – they affect the character of the place, even if they are less than a third of the overall students. At Harvard, the character comes more from people who plan to go to law school and later run for President, or who intend to win a Nobel Prize in medicine.</p>
<p>Stanford has a lot of students – not all, but a lot – who intend never to leave California, besides maybe spending a quarter in London, Tokyo, or Paris. Harvard has a lot of students – more than just a lot – who see themselves on a world stage. There is way more naked ambition at Harvard. That’s not to say there isn’t plenty of ambition at Stanford, but it tends to wear clothes, and it doesn’t quite measure up to Harvard intensity. And of course there are chill people at Harvard, too (but the number goes down further if you give them a few drinks and ask them about themselves).</p>
<p>Speaking of clothes, unlike ambitions people wear a lot less clothes at Stanford than at Harvard. </p>
<p>At both Harvard and Stanford, some people are going to be motivated and inspired by the incredible achievements of their classmates, and some people are going to feel oppressed and smothered by the pressure that creates. However, I think at Harvard each group feels that feeling more intensely, on average, than their counterparts at Stanford.</p>
<p>At Harvard, people tend to make certain you know they are working hard, and that they are really smart. The metaphor you always hear about Stanford students is ducks – what you see on the surface is all serene and effortless; all the furious, exhausting paddling happens below the waterline, out of sight.</p>
<p>If you like being in a major city, Harvard is, and Stanford isn’t. (If you don’t like being in a major city, Stanford isn’t and Harvard is.) Stanford is its own not-so-little magical world; Harvard is part of a complex urban geography. At Harvard you can get on the T and be just about anywhere you would want to go in the Boston area within 30-40 minutes. At Stanford, you can get on the commuter train and in somewhat less than an hour be somewhere in San Francisco from which you might get where you want to go in 30-40 minutes, if you are lucky. Stanford students spend a lot less time off campus than Harvard students do. Stanford also has areas of great natural beauty on campus. So, at Stanford it’s harder to go to the opera, or a great art museum, but at Harvard you can’t run to the Dish. (Harvard does, however, have a really nifty river running right along the campus. Stanford doesn’t have a river, and its artificial lake doesn’t always hold water, but if you keep walking west you can visit the San Andreas fault line.)</p>
<p>Harvard’s House residential system is great and a huge plus, socially. Practically every student at Harvard will tell you how wonderful it is and that it’s a huge advantage for Harvard. Practically every student at Stanford wonders what the Harvard students are talking about, because the Stanford housing system seems fine to them. And it is fine, but Harvard’s is better.</p>