(Reposted from my school’s forum, original thread found here)
http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/university-michigan-ann-arbor/1828269-student-debt-went-into-collections-now-what.html#latest
Okay, so I’ll try to keep this as brief as possible but we’ll see.
Long Version:
I have been studying at University of Michigan for the past four years; I have about 2 semesters to go at Stamps. Last winter my father was diagnosed with stage IV cancer, this really wore me down but I decided to continue on in my studies. My mother suffers from severe bipolar disorder and didn’t handle my dad’s diagnosis too well. It became clear to me that I was needed at home and in addition it was near impossible to focus on my work. In hindsight I’m glad I came home because soon after we had to have my mother committed to a mental hospital, and she went in and out of there every few weeks from February to May. A few months ago she had a valve replacement surgery, and I’ve been acting as caregiver to both her and my father. Okay, enough of the pity party (sorry, sometimes its nice to type) I notified my professors of how I wasn’t going to be returning, but I did not go through an official withdrawal. Admittedly this was a huge mistake, but I thought the only thing that would be affected was my GPA, and quite frankly that was the least of my worries at the time.
Because of my poor academic performance last winter term I was suspended for the current academic year, it seemed unfortunate but again, I was told I didn’t go through the proper channels when leaving school so it fit. Weeks later is when the crushing blow came, I was charged just under $8,000 for the winter semester. My tuition is 100% covered through financial aid and loans, and my parents are unable to help me in any way.
Since the debt has remained unpaid, it has since been transferred to collections and I am unable to return to school next fall term (when the suspension ends). Financial aid has been everything but helpful and I keep running into brick walls wherever I turn.
So after all that, here’s the question: what can I do? My dad is a Vietnam veteran so I’m going to turn to the VA for some advice next week. Surely this isn’t the first time something like this has happened, I wouldn’t turn to the internet for suggestions unless I was desperate, so please, it would be greatly appreciated if we could focus on my future at the U, and not things I could have done differently in the past. 
I greatly appreciate you taking the time to read my post.
Short Version:
I have an unpaid debt with student financial services and am unable to return to the U until it is paid. Does anyone know of lenders that would work with someone in my situation or is there any way I could put the debt into forbearance until I graduate?
Thanks