<p>momma-three,</p>
<p>I am sure that your son would (and will) do well regardless of whether he attended MIT or another college. If he was smart enough to get into MIT, he will be successfull at almost anything he tries.</p>
<p>That said, I, too, was glad to graduate and get out of there. MIT was my dream school and I was lucky enough to go. But it does wear on you. You aren’t stressed all the time, but enough of the time. </p>
<p>Some of my classmates were even more excited to be getting out with their diplomas and going out into the “real world”. At first the “real world” is mind blowing (at least it was for me). My job is designing rocket engines for NASA. I was working along side guys that had just finished the Apollo program (I graduated a “few” years ago!!!). These guys were sharp and I had a lot to learn. </p>
<p>I was given interesting and exciting tasks and was learning a lot. However, the deadlines were easy to meet and I was thinking that this was a piece of cake. However, after a few years, the tasks got harder and the deadlines shorter. All part of the job growth actually. New kids never got the critical tasks. It was just like the pressure I had at MIT except these were real deadlines that cost a lot of money if missed. Boy could your boss apply pressure like no professor ever could. The only thing easier was that at some point in the day, you could just throw down your pencil or keyboard or whatever and walk out the door until the next day. However, sometimes that wasn’t until very late at night.</p>
<p>So, you learned (again) to deal with pressure (and schedule tasks better). You still needed to balance your work life and your personal life. At this point I and my old MIT classmates, who couldn’t wait to get out, would talk about the “good old days” back in school at MIT. </p>
<p>I’ve matured enough to enjoy the pressure you get in the work environment. Because getting tough jobs done well under pressure is one of the most satisfying things at work. It also garners the most attention from your peers and from upper management. It gets you the best pay raises. It also gets you more of the same kinds of pressure cooked jobs and the cycle continues. </p>
<p>But after work, I still go hiking, I play on a sports team, I am a scoutmaster in Boy Scouts, I enjoy time with my wife and my family. I have a good, RELAXING, time. I wouldn’t change a thing.</p>