<p>I have been reading CC for sometime. I have read the admissions, financial aid, specific college and generalized threads. A couple of salient points:</p>
<p>I find a lot of people on these threads are somewhat narcissistic and self obsessed, if not neurotic about "elitism" and what this or that college does.</p>
<p>Nonsense! Yes, most of the big name schools are wonderful and have superb faculty, the same can be said about lesser known schools...including the seven sisters or formerly women only colleges in the south.</p>
<p>I went to a non prestigious Jesuit college undergrad. I had four fabulous years (30 years ago...they felt pity on me being a Vietnam era vet) and eventually onto a prestigious law school. </p>
<p>There are HUGE differences in the college "experience", but not necessarily in the college "education" one gets at one school or the other, depending on its "culture", "size", "elitism", private or public, emphasis on Liberal Arts or Math/Science, or sports. Vanderbilt is a superb southern school, but its better known for girls with pearls it seems to me than producing CEO's. Most American corporate CEO's in fact come from state schools. Fact.</p>
<p>Going to Michigan or Ohio State is not the same as Swarthmore or Williams on any level, though the education one receives may actually be surprisingly similar in quality. Part of what the "elite" colleges do, like their feeder school "elite prep" schools do is push an image of superiority, which frankly is more smoke and mirrors than anything. The only thing truly elitist about them is the money bags their students bring (and that of their parents).</p>
<p>We all know that SAT scores do not necessarily provide a measure of success or even a measure of native intelligence. Its a VERY blunt object. True, a 1200 is not a 1500 or 1600, but I would have to say, I would much rather fill a classroom with 1250-1350 kids, than a bunch of geeks with 1600's and who cant walk and chew gum at the same time, get along with their roomates or navigate common sense. That is my bias. Elitist people nauseate me.</p>
<p>My D is VERY bright, VERY gifted. She did NOT apply to the Northeastern elitist colleges or Ivy's because she knew instinctively that she "did not fit" and did not want to hang with those people or in her parlance, "date any of those prepsters". </p>
<p>I congratulate anyone and everyone on being admitted anywhere. I wish them all the very best and tell them to work hard and stay focused upon their goals and objectives.</p>
<p>My D chose a college that fit her personality, exemplified her social and religious values and would be a strong challenge to her academically, but not beat her up and spit her out socially, academically, financially.</p>
<p>She had several choices and included some weighty scholarships. She was wait listed at three schools that were "reach" schools, but only one of them is seriously still in the offing (meaning she will go if she is called.)</p>
<p>Employers are just as apt to hire a kid from NCState or Florida State or Georgia Tech as they are from UVa, Duke, Washington and Lee, Davidson, Emory. Ditto from Northeastern, BU as they are from Harvard or Yale. What matters is the character (integrity) of the applicant, the ability to get along with others and the ability to be creative and productive.</p>
<p>If you got into or attended an Ivy or elite school: congratulations! But I also congratulate the Michigan State kids, the Iowa State kids, the UMissouri kids.</p>
<p>My daughter is going to a school that had 22,500 applications for approximately 1,600 seats. Its a great "fit" on all accounts, with deep programs, SUPERB faculty (we met and spoke with several of them, they were warm, endearing, inquisitive, and EXCITED that my daughter is coming!).</p>
<p>But we really need to get away from this nonsense that the only thing that matters is getting into an elite school: no matter who you think that might be.</p>
<p>Best of luck to all.</p>
<p>n.b. I know, work with, and am friends with people from Harvard, Yale, Princeton, Williams, BC, Emory, Vanderbilt, Duke, Wake Forest, UNC, Davidson, Stanford, Northwestern, on and on. I measure the person FIRST by their integrity, NOT by their credentials. I dont care if you went to Arkansas State. Its all about CHARACTER, NOT CREDENTIALS.</p>
<p>bye bye...gone fishin.....</p>