<p>I really think the way WDM is phrasing her post indicates that she does not speak English as a first language and is a bit naive as to the ways of typical college students. </p>
<p>A truthful answer: Hygiene--Swarthmore students are no more or less clean than at any typical college. My D showers every day. However, as someone mentioned before, they aren't so concerned with clothing/fashion/etc. and a person who is used to seeing girls wearing makeup and carrying purses or boys with shirts tucked in might think they look scruffy. Berkeley kids will not look or smell any different than Swatties, but kids at UCLA might!</p>
<p>No one will bang on your door if you sleep through a class, you are responsible for keeping your own hours and working as hard or as little as you like. D went to a rigorous HS, so finds the work not that much harder. BUT she does work hard because she holds herself to a high standard and because she has a lot of extra-curricular responsibilities. Maybe she could ease up a bit on herself, but it is her choice. Your daughter may not have to work so hard, but she will find that other students talk about their work quite a bit, and may find that a turn-off. It can be intense, no doubt about it.</p>
<p>Drugs and alcohol--again, quite a bit less partying than the average college. Yes there is alcohol and marijuana, but you will find no pressure to partake of either, and plenty of people that abstain.</p>
<p>Tree hugging--I certainly wish more of the world would fall into this category! There are some people who might find the social/political activism at Swat off-putting--I imagine it might get a bit strident at times, but again, it's not something that every student is into, and you don't have to get involved. This is something that only your daughter can answer for herself by visiting. I think Berkeley would really be similar, but being larger, you would have more opportunity to fit into a different group.</p>
<p>Size of campus. Full disclosure--my D is also an introvert, and thought that on a small campus it would be easiest to make friends--that she might feel overwhelmed and not able to find the right social group on a big campus. I think that is mostly right, and certainly having the opportunity to run into the same people helps. Certainly interacting with faculty is not intimidating (might be at Cal) getting involved in ec's is very easy (may be harder at Cal). However, she has found that Swat is also a bit (for lack of a better word) more cliquey than she had expected. She hasn't had quite the positive social experience that ahe had expected--but maybe expectations were too high. I'll get slammed for this--but what can I say--it's true.</p>
<p>BUT--I think, for her, Berkeley would have absolutely worse. But that's her--it's a completely differnt type of school. You need to read the many many posts about the differences between a large research Univ. and a small LAC. She needs to visit both, if possible. My gut instinct is that Swarthmore is not the right school for her--but only she can decide for sure. Good luck.</p>