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I don't mean this to sound flip, but do your kids - and the other students you know - seem to love the school as much as many of you parents do?
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<p>Mine does. Loves the college. Loves her many friends. Loves her classes. I'm not talking flippant comments, but serious, almost tearing-up, when she talks about how much she enjoys it.</p>
<p>I don't think that is uncommon. We have encountered it from virtually all Swarthmore alumni.</p>
<p>I asked her to name something that she didn't like. She thought a minute and finally came up with "the food gets a little boring after a while..."</p>
<p>She has only had one sleep-inducing class: her only large lecture class 1st semester - Psych 101 or whatever they call it. Conversely, her large intro lecture class this semester, Intro Art History, doesn't require "pre-gaming" at the Kohlberg coffee bar. She raves about the professor and that course.</p>
<p>She probably would complain about the amount of work she has during mid-term or finals weeks, but we tend not to hear from her those weeks! When I picked her up at the airport after 1st semester finals, she said that she had not pulled any "all-nighters", but that she definitely needed to catch up on some sleep, but I can't imagine a college student finishing finals and NOT being in that boat. </p>
<p>She has been pretty diligent about doing some reading or working on lab report or writing a rough-draft of a paper each time she's been home for a break and she seems to treat Sunday thru Thursday nights as "school nights" for studying. I asked her if she goes to Thursay night "Pub Night" and said, "No...Thursday's a study night."</p>
<p>Overall, her assessment seems to be that the workload is heavy enough that she has to keep chipping away at it, but not backbreaking so far. Of course, she's also been cognizant of balancing her class-load and doing some advance scouting of professors with her senior friends in her dorm. She did rearrange her schedule this semester to avoid a professor scheduled to teach the course this year, but not next.</p>
<p>She took a three-day workshop on study skills at the end of Winter Break and has been applying some of what she learned. For example, she started going to the library after dinner to do her reading because she can get more done without interruptions in the dorm. This from a kid who had never done one minute of schoolwork for 12 years without the TV or the radio or the CD player or the Instant Messenger going in the background.</p>