DS19 is currently waiting on ED. He took ACTs in spring of Sophomore year.
Academics was always a top priority and then finding the right fit. DS wanted a D3 LAC. We used collegeswimming.com and ran NPCs on college websites.
We know a swimmer at a lower D1 who hardly has time to breathe. If she isn’t at practice in the pool or dryland, she’s at classes, labs, mandatory study sessions, or working the snack bar at sport events to pay for their winter training trip, while maintaining a certain GPA to keep her scholarship. Is that what your swimmer wants? Maybe yes, maybe no.
Things we did right:
DS went on 3 OVs at D3 schools by himself. He thought he didn’t care about how far away the school was located. On his first OV, there was a terror threat at one airport where they boarded the plane and left the gate early. On his second visit, his flight was delayed and he had to run to the light rail to transfer terminals to catch the bus that was taking him to campus. He applied to an LAC that doesn’t require a flight : )
What we would do differently:
What I would recommend is identifying colleges that would be a reach, match, and safety both academically AND athletically - which is easier said than done. But some D3 swim programs are getting faster, recruiting internationally, etc. and what looks like a match on paper might not be in reality.
Try not to have a dream school.
Think about whether DS would like to be a big fish in a small pond (maybe helping grow a program) or if he’s happy being a small fish in a big pond. Is your kid comfortable going from being both a star athlete and student to being neither at college?
Fill out recruiting questionnaires and contacting assistant coaches as unless you are a top recruit, no-one is going to contact you.
Make a new email account that you both can access. This isn’t necessary but I would have liked to know who was contacting DS and making sure DS was replying in a timely manner.
It is really hard for a teenager to get an accurate read on a coaches interest even if they’ve been invited on an OV. If you are a top recruit, you will know it. But if you aren’t, the coach will string your kid along, in case his top recruits go elsewhere. Others have likened it to a game of musical chairs. But I have found that it is hard for teenagers to read the nuances in what a coach is saying. DS would get off the phone and be pretty positive but when he would relay what the coach actually said, I would find it not so positive. Who knows whether that is wishful thinking on DS’s part or my experience reading between what is and isn’t said.
We are thrilled with where he has applied but it is definitely not where we started the process.
Good luck! It’s a wild ride.