Thank you for all of the suggestions.
@Silpat Your JCP suggestion was perfect. I spent some time going through their options, and I think I can make some of those work and stay under my window treatment budget. I am going to call my realtor to set up a time to measure the windows.
(There aren’t even any window treatments in the bedrooms or bathrooms. I don’t want sunlight streaming in every morning. Not sure anyone can see in the bathrooms due to elevation and window height (vs floor to ceiling sunroom windows), but I need to think that through.
@emilybee The fp is my biggest ?? I do not like the brick. There is another brick fireplace in the basement with a partial brick bar. The brick fits that space and is not going to be touched. But the brick in the family room just seems to there. The house has beautiful crown molding everywhere (even in the garage!!). The wrap around porch has redwood ceilings. The details are wonderful. The brick just seems blah and detracts from everything else.
I really like the suggestion of dealing with the cabinets first. Good idea.
I do foresee the complication of after dealing with the cabinets having to deal with the oak trim. My ds has a friend who is a commercial interior designer. I might ask her if she has any insight on how to approach that. She originally wanted to do residential, so I do know she has some interest there.