<p>There was a parent who posted here last year about asking why his son should NOT be applying ED to CMU. He stated the advantages and reasons as to why he wanted to do this. My response to him was that in his case, he and his kid were good to go. They were well informed as to how ED worked; not the quick version, but understood it fully. The student had very good specific reasons why CMU was his first choice school and he really wanted to go there. CMU guarantees to meet full need only to ED applicants–you takes your chances if you apply RD with respect to getting need fully met. They also got a pre application estimate from CMU–their fin aid office will do this, run a more specific NPC if requested, and they did not own a business or have any other funky investment situations at hand. They were NOT looking for the best deal in a school, and were just interested in getting a CMU acceptance for an affordable price. Though they were not 100% certain where that line could be drawn; realistically many of us have trouble naming that magic number, they were will to do what they could without getting into financial trouble to make it work if the student was accepted. They did not care if RPI or Case Western or any other school came up with a better financial package or if the student got a full ride offer, for that matter at another school. The student wanted CMU if at all affordable and the parents were on board with this. The dad posting also seemed to have a good handle on what the family could and would afford. </p>
<p>In that case, great…go for it. Perfect ED candidate with financial need. But that is NOT the usual case. Most parents, students don’t understand the ramifications of having to assess an aid package in a vacuum when it isn’t what one had expected. Where do you draw the line? I can tell you right now, it’s very difficult for me to draw a firm line on a cost. I’m kinda fuzzy about it. If there are other alternatives that line can drop or rise. </p>
<p>A true story. Some years ago, someone I know well, was praying, literally praying that his DD get into HC ED. He would have given his right arm to give his very talented, wonderful daughter the opportunity to go to her first choice school. If there were any way to make it work, he was going to do it And, oh, the joy and celebration when she did get accepted. The fin aid package was not what they had hoped, but they were going to make it work. </p>
<p>Though the DD had rescinded her other applications to schools that were already sent out (only a few) some schools, like our state schools do not seem to drop the apps when so told. Has happened a number of times. Well, when my friend went to get his taxes done, his accountant, told him flat out he was insane and could not afford that college. Then came a successions that can happen, like the roof leaks and needs costly repairs, large tree on property dies and has to be removed, root canal and cap needed to save a tooth, younger sibling needs braces, out of state grandma has a crisis and family asked to pitch in, the car dies,…you all know what I mean. Also some things that were overlooked in terms of expenses when thinking the college bill was going to be affordable crop up. And then DD gets an acceptance to SUNY Binghamton to the Honors College with a small but nice little scholarship , and a bunch of her friends are going there, and she says out of the blue that she’d just as soon go there, and oh, by the way, some classmates are going on this trip she’d so love to join, but it’s more money, and it looks like they are cutting shifts on her summer job and that second job fell through. It’s now getting into spring, and the Big MO as I call it, of ED was over. That emotional must have is gone, now that HC was in the pocket, and then there is that buyer’s remorse and paying the piper factors coming to play too.</p>
<p>So, she reneged on the ED which is a story of its own, but the bottom line is that I am convinced this scenario would be often repeated if families and students could get out of that Big MO ED press, and see other opportunities and costs on the table. Would you really pick HC over, say Fordham, if Fordham gave you one of their big scholarships and HC’s fin aid offer was just barely doable maybe? Or what if that lottery ticket application to Notre Dame or BC panned out with a more generous, less self help award? This is what you miss out on when you do ED. When there is no financial need in the factor, at least you don’t have the money aspect holding you in a vice, but, hey, even then without need, there is a perspective one gains when ALL the cards are on the table. You lose that with ED.</p>