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First, I don't think it was ever made clear to my brother how to use his alumni network. Maybe it was. But think about it: anybody who has the stamina and the motivation to put in 70 letters also has the stamina and motivation to use an alumni network. I should also note that I don't think his field was one that many at his school went into. He's not into the i-banking scene.
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<p>Oh, I don't know. I would argue that some people are quite uncomfortable about 'hitting people up' for help, and would rather just do things the formal way. There's nothing wrong with that, it's just that that's not the only way to get things done. </p>
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As for my school, I think the idea is that there are many high-power alumni, and, in exchange for serving as a resource for students (one is certainly free to e-mail them, call them, ask them about their undergraduate experience, ask them what their jobs are like, etc). An alum does not have to be bothered by undergrads saying the equivalent of "OMG OMG DO YOU HAVE A JOB FOR ME PLZ?" Honestly, spamming alumni in this regard seems quite unprofessional, and if I were a future employer, I might look down on an applicant who thought that he or she could get a job at my place just BECAUSE we shared a place of study in common. The career office probably frowns down on it for exactly this reason. If an undergraduate wanted to go ahead and pester somebody for a job, well, that's just abuse of a privilege, in their eyes. I don't disagree.
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<p>Uh, there's a pretty big difference between what you said before and now, don't you think? There's a big difference between using your network to ask for jobs and going around pestering people or relying on spam. Hopefully if you can get into a top school, then you know how to use tact, and you know how to schmooze.</p>
<p>I'm not talking about 'spamming' people. I'm talking about chatting people up during, say, alumni events. Meeting people through friends of friends. Basically being a social animal. Or engaging in business ventures together (i.e. all of the Facebook founders were not-so-coincidentally all housemates at Harvard). Nobody is saying that you will get a job 'just because' you share a place of study in common. Rather, it's that you have opportunities to close the deal that others don't because you have common social opportunities with which to 'close the deal'. Only UChicago alumni are invited to UChicago alumni events, for example. </p>
<p>Look, nobody is saying to 'pester' anybody. Think about it like asking a girl out. There's a fine line between politely asking for a date and just harrassing a girl for a date. The former is perfectly acceptable, the latter is not. Furthermore, it's easier to get a date if you already have something in common (i.e. common school) because, if nothing else, that can serve as your conversation ice-breaker. Alumni networking operates the same way, but of course with different payoffs (via dating you may ultimately find a wife, whereas alumni networking may ultimately find you a job). </p>
<p>The bottom line is this. Chatting somebody up is obviously a lot easier when both of you actually have something in common. And, let's face it, jobs often times go to those who can chat people up the best.</p>