<p>Why are so many people obsessing over an athletic conference? The status quo imagines the "Ivy League" as some magical realm of wondrous transformation, where anyone who goes in comes out as a rich, sexy celebrity. This is an ugly illusion as widespread as it is wrong. </p>
<p>Many students in these highly competitive atmospheres cannot handle the heavy stress, burning out in disappointment and depression. Surely, the salary of an Ivy League graduate is a few thousand bucks higher than the national average. So what? Of course, acceptance at an elite school will get you respect from your peers and parents for the next few months before college. But is that really going to change your life in the long run?</p>
<p>While many extremely successful people are overrepresented from these institutions of learning, it is their own abilities fueled by a burning passion that drives them to excellence, not a dead sheet of paper that says "Congratulations!" on top. </p>
<p>Furthermore, it begs a more fundamental question - what IS success? </p>
<p>Find success in terms of your true love, not by such superficial measures as money and fame. </p>
<p>A musician choosing Curtis over Princeton,
a physics major choosing MIT over Dartmouth,
an artist choosing RISD over Penn,
a naval officer choosing Annapolis over Brown,
a computer scientist choosing Stanford over Columbia,
a dancer choosing Berkeley over Yale,
should be proud of making an individual decision in the face of other people's sick lust over pedigree.</p>
<p>That said, it is true that the top ranked schools have great educational resources overall, and indeed the brand name recognition can provide a boost for those interested in business and especially politics as future careers, but otherwise, find a culture and environment in which you would belong.</p>
<p>Don't sacrifice four years of your teenage life by grinding SAT vocab lists</p>
<p>Don't be a brainwashed zombie</p>
<p>Don't struggle to fit in with the rest </p>
<p>Don't brag about your alma mater</p>
<p>Don't kill yourself over college admissions</p>
<p>Do keep it real</p>