The stress is setting in...

You haven’t said what you DO want.

As said above check each colleges net price calculators (and put in accurate numbers). Your parents need to be involved. 3.4 and 32 ACT keeps you in the mix for many schools - and yes state schools might cost more than private due to financial iad.

Do you want a big school? small school?
How far from home do you want to be?
Do you want to be in a city or the middle of nowhere?

Have you thought about a major?

Start with those 4 questions? and see where that takes you - then look at tests/gpas to see if you in the mid range - then run net price etc. -then visit schools, web sites etc