<p>TaraMom:</p>
<p>Without the data I dont have any facts to determine if the payoff (i.e. working) actually DOES appear to be remote. Just anecdotal perceptions, which may not be accurate. Maybe there is no real problem. That would be ok too. I just want to know, and I want her to know. She can make a decision, but it should be an informed one.</p>
<p>And youre right, if the facts come out one way she will not be happy to receive them. But I feel I need to present them anyway. She will ignore it initially, or worse, but eventually, if is true, and reinforced elsewhere, she will probably accept the data.</p>
<p>If my son one day comes in and tells me he wants to go to Georgetown, because his career plan after college is to become President of the United States, I will point out to him that becoming President might be something to aspire to, but it is not an expected outcome, so he might make some additional plans.</p>
<p>If my daughter is driving, and a car suddenly pulls out heading towards us and is in her blind spot, I will probably say something about it. Even though 90% of the time she will give me some snippy answer to the effect that she already saw it. The other10%, by speaking up I could avoid an accident.</p>
<p>I think the LACs with good theater programs are in fact the way she should go. If it turns out ultimately that she cannot pursue acting though, I think there is a way that having Theater on the degree is a negative. It is negative because she will have devoted about 1/3 of her college classes to a field that she never uses subsequently. I myself received training in a profession that I no longer practice and I wish to heck Id used that time instead to take more courses that might enrich my life more now, like various other areas of the liberal arts. In her case, she has no academic interest in theater apart from acting. For her this would not be just like other liberal arts courses; it is really more like vocational training like my previous accounting degree example. If she takes enough theater courses for a major, and then never gets to act, then for her, a good chunk of her precious, irreplaceable time in college would have, at the end of the day, been better spent elsewhere. Thats the negative, IMO.</p>
<p>Her course choices will ultimately be her decision. But she should make informed choices.</p>
<p>Alwaysamom:</p>
<p>I understand the realities of the situation.
Well good for you, but I dont, not without seeing the data. Thats precisely what Im trying to get to, to understand the realities of the situation. After I do that, then I guess Ill be closer to where you already are on this.</p>
<p>The promise of success and financial security is not of utmost importance.
OK, Im with you to this point, but that doesnt mean they are irrelevant either. Career viability is a consideration for most people, I would think. Not the sole, dispositive consideration necessarily, but a consideration nonetheless. </p>
<p>The latter (e.g. success) was not a consideration and should not be for any of these kids.</p>
<p>Youre saying here that these arent even to be considered in any measure at all. Now you lost me. Why is that? Does someone get a trust fund as soon as they gain entrance to a theater program? Is it an entrance requirement that all admitted students must already have a trust fund? If they get all this training, but then they cant use it because they cant get any acting jobs, are they given the automatic right to do college all over again, for free? This is solely vocational training for her, as I see it. If it turns out there is no vocation afterwards, this will have been wasted time, considering other things she could have been learning instead.</p>
<p>If it is for you, or for your D, then theatre probably is not the right path for her.</p>
<p>Why does it follow that theater is probably not right for my daughter, simply because I counsel to take its viability into account? Even if it turns out that I am more cautious about it then she is, at the end of the day she will decide her course. If you have a different relationship with your children more power to you.</p>