<p>There are many posts from parents (and some from students) stating their child is only applying to the best schools out thereif they cant get into a Tier One school, they will attend their local public high school or magnet school. I have given these statements a lot of thought, particularly because my daughters (one currently in boarding school and one applying for 2008 admission) did not apply, nor would ever be accepted by the AESD schools. </p>
<p>Both are good students, but certainly not of the caliber of some of the posters on this board. They enjoy school, do fairly well academically, play sports, and have a wide circle of friends whom they love dearly. </p>
<p>We live in an area where the local high schools are excellent; offering numerous extra-curricular activities and more than 23 AP classes, (average boarding school offers 13). The test scores are the highest in the state, the district spends over $14,300 on each pupil, and the class sizes arent too terribly large, on average 25 kids per class. </p>
<p>Perhaps if my daughters were more like many of the posters here, they would thrive at our local high school. Cream rises to the top, and it appears that many of the kids on this board are crème de la crème. But my kids, and probably a lot more like mine, are the type of children that do well, but dont really push themselves. It is hard to be a superstar, when you are competing with 1400 other kids at your school. It is much easier to do enough to get by, get that B+ instead of an A-. Leadership roles are ultra competitive, as are sports. Even if you are lucky enough to get on a team, it doesnt mean you will actually play much.</p>
<p>Boarding school offers smaller classes, individual teacher attention, and diversity of athletics, artistic programs, and student population. Typically, the campus is gorgeous, with beautiful, state-of-the-art facilities. The majority of the faculty has advanced degrees, and having that teacher on campus, sharing meals, being a dorm parent, coaching the ECs, can be a very rewarding relationship. More importantly, the experience of living on your own, making decisions by yourself, making friends with people from all over the world, can be life changing. Many schools provide this type of opportunity. Unfortunately, only the top 15 or so are usually mentioned. </p>
<p>Also, for what its worth, in my opinion, every school becomes a reach if you are requesting financial aid.</p>