<p>For the most part? So for the lesser part then you sound like you're a lot of fun...</p>
<p>No smart man wants a relationship. A relationship leads to commitment which leads to marriage which leads to financial ruin and not being able to see your kids. I thought this was common knowledge lmao.</p>
<p>hahaha collegehopeful. Being in a relationship during the first two years of college is not recommended, that way you can party and not worry what i might happen, although i want a gf.</p>
<p>Ahaha this is really interesting.</p>
<p>From what I have seen I would recommend any man ever being in a relationship. Relationships cater to and are only about the girl's happiness. Its never an equal give and take from what people in college and beyond have told me. But thats just my opinion.</p>
<p>but i like making girls happy.</p>
<p>All guys do...</p>
<p>Where we begin to differ is with what?</p>
<p>Easy seems to have an answer to that question though, maybe you should PM him.</p>
<p>Why would I? I already know how.</p>
<p>"Relationships cater to and are only about the girl's happiness."</p>
<p>I wouldn't say relationships are only about the girl, but from what I can tell, often the girl gets a lot more out of a relationship than the guy. </p>
<p>As for catering to a girl's happiness per se--catering to a girl's happiness is how chumps get themselves cheated on all the time.</p>
<p>This may be true in a college relationship, but men typically benefit more from marriage than women.</p>
<p>"Men</a> Without Women": <i>Look</i> Magazine' Offers a Guide to the Unmarried Man</p>
<p>Hence why I am a bit skeptical of marriage.</p>
<p>A good relationship would be 50/50 with each one benefiting equally. This doesn't happen in America. Ask any guy who benefits more from a relationship. He will never ever say himself. While men may benefit from marriage (arguable), women benefit more from divorce. Go to Europe. You'll meet plenty of giving girls there.</p>
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This may be true in a college relationship, but men typically benefit more from marriage than women.</p>
<p>"Men Without Women": <i>Look</i> Magazine' Offers a Guide to the Unmarried Man</p>
<p>Hence why I am a bit skeptical of marriage.
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<p>Which is why you will develop a fake relationship with your bf, marry him and then divorce him so you can get the alimony. I know how your mind works :)</p>
<p>:P.</p>
<p>I'd probably be the one paying alimony, so I doubt it.</p>
<p>From an evolutionary psychology standpoint, marriage benefits males as whole and detriments females. Marriage can be construed as a compromise between men to distribute women more evenly. Polygamy benefits only a small number of men and allows women more options.</p>
<p>nyuwisabee , but you get to be selfish during the dating phase. During marriage you will still benefit. Most of the statistics show that men live longer and are happy when married seem to be fake to me. Maybe this applies to immature men who need a women to tell them what to do and when to go to the doctor but any smart man wouldn't reap these benefits. The opportunity cost of dating is too high for men. The total utility received is always less the the total utility given.</p>
<p>we're off topic. supposed to be talking about hot guys guys.</p>
<p>Haha yes going off topic for sure. Hot guys turned into relationships and then turned into marriages. Ahaha I'm just askin who's hot and who's not. Just some eye candy.</p>
<p>I am a total eye jawbreaker. for realz. </p>
<p>Any school will have hot guys/gals, i guess it depends on your style. do you like preppy? UVA, BC, NYU, almost all the Ivy (except cornell and brown)
jock? OSU, USC, etc...
surfer? Florida schools, USC, UCSB, etc...
european styled guys? ucla, uva, etc....
the farmers? any midwest school.
asians? UC-berkley, ucla. </p>
<p>all schools really have all types of people. bigger the school, more hot people.</p>
<p>Actually, I go to UT in Austin and there are NOOOoooo cute guys there!! It is horrible! But, I have been wondering where all the cute and not nerdy guys are because I have not seen any for the past two years.</p>
<p>Sounds like your standards are ridiculous.</p>