That the student is struggling is ok - as the student has ADHD and processing issues. The Mom is saying covid caused the dip. I’m not sure you can say that with certainty but ok. It’s ok for students to struggle and that’s so important that we all find our right place in life.
But the question asked was is it ok - for lack of sounding insensitive - to place blame on a student getting 3 Bs - and 89s at that.
That insinuates Bs are bad - and it’s simply not the case.
And if colleges had to start separating a 93 from a 98 to see which is a better A, we’d have much more complexity.
And it’s just, to someone on the receiving end of it, making an excuse - and that’s never a good thing.
So I think talking about what covid did or didn’t do to someone and to talk of the politics as OP did - isn’t germane to the question they asked which is:
So what to do? Should we explain and include the ADHD and 504 need?
And I think the answer most/all have made is - nothing.
Put the best student out there you can - and a 3.6 and 3 Bs or if it were 8 Bs is A OK!!!
I think about my neighbors - I live in a nice neighborhood - 7 figure homes - and I think where my neighbors went to college - Mississippi State, Lipscomb, Alabama, UTK, Rutgers, MTSU, Belmont, Kentucky, LSU, Auburn, Lee University, Minnesota etc.
You don’t need to go to the top of the heap to be in a really great place…way way way (IMHO) too much emphasis on rank and pedigree. Sure it’s great and I honestly love it and wish my kids had chosen their most prestigious vs. a safety - but they chose the safety - but I have no doubt that they will have the level of success that they want in life - should they strive for it - and so will your student.