<p>Students often assume that they will be a top student at an average school or an average stuent at a top school, but I wouldn’t make those assumptions. I was a pretty average student at an average school, despite being in the top 5% of applicants when I began as a freshman. This college was excellent and I learned a lot, and was very well prepared for grad school. However, students weren’t competitive (which was one reason I decided to attend here) and the goal wasn’t really to get the top grades, but to learn. Plus I realized didn’t have to work very hard to make good grades - I was literally the top applicant at my LAC. So I became sort of lazy and was totally satisifed with Bs, especially since I had been a top student in high school and worked my butt off for that. In college, I could care less about being in the top 10% or whatever, I just wanted to do well. I still graduated with honors, but my GPA was a 3.42. (FWIW, I’m getting my PhD at a top 5 Ivy League program and was an NSF fellow…so it all worked out for me.)</p>
<p>On the other hand, I’m currently a graduate student at one of the top schools in the country, and the undergrads here are mostly hypercompetitive. Even the students who are “laid-back” here would be some of the most competitive students at my undergrad. So that hypercompetitive atmosphere makes even middle-of-the-pack students work hard and really strive for the top grades. On top of that, the grade inflation here is pretty serious. Papers that would get Cs at my lower-ranked undergrad - a writing-intensive LAC - get Bs here (and I know because I’ve graded many of them!) There are jokes about the grade inflation at Harvard and Yale, but they’re rooted in truth.</p>
<p>There are also fewer social life distractions - not in an actual sense (this university is in a very large city, which narrows it down a bit, right?) but in the student body sense. My undergrad college had a very vibrant social life, so the ethos was ‘study as much as you need to do decently well and then have fun!’ Classes were mostly over by 5 pm, and campus would just flood with students. Some people were really involved with their student groups but many students (like myself) were doing absolutely <em>nothing</em>, just hanging out and talking. This university’s undergrads aren’t really like that - I held a staff meeting for my RAs at 10 pm and every semester I would have at least one student who had to show up a few minutes late because a class ran over or because they were running from another student group meeting. It’s not uncommon for students to be in class until 8 pm. I remember one time there was a fire alarm in the library on a Sunday afternnon and the fire department showed up and were bewildered at the large number of students flowing out of the library. They were cracking jokes about how nerdy they were!</p>
<p>Anyway, tl;dr is that don’t assume you’ll be a top student just because you go to an average school, or that you’ll be an average student at a top school. High school is over, and college is a whole different ball game. At schools like Yale or Swarthmore, ALL of the students were top students in high school and the differences in your class ranks and GPAs are probably more due to the idiosyncracies of the classes you took and the schools to which you went than actual ability differences. So it’s anyone’s guess as to who will become the top students - a student who is technically the “middle of the back” in their freshman year could very well become the valedictorian of the class because he works hard and finds his niche.</p>
<p>On the other hand, at most colleges there are lots of distractions. Besides, sometimes the high school valedictorian will decide she’s tired of working her butt off to be the TOP student and is fine with just being a good student. So the student who may have had the highest grades and SAT scores upon admission may decide to spend more time on her sorority, or on SGA, or her internship, or volunteering in the community, and get a 3.4 GPA. Which is still good, just not enough to make her the valedictorian - but she doesn’t care about that and her resume is banging and she’s made lots of connections, so win win for everyone!</p>
<p>Besides all that…grad schools care less about where you went to college and more interested in what you do there. Like I said, I’m a former NSF fellow, currently on another top external fellowship I received for my dissertation, at a top 5 Ivy League PhD program. I went to the LAC ranked #68 on the U.S. News list. But that’s because I did the other things I needed to do (good grades overall, better grades in my major, research, great statement of purpose, top GRE scores) to get into graduate school.</p>