<p>Hello,
I just finished my first year at Barnard College and unfortunately I couldn't stand it. I am, in all honesty, a hard-core nerd and I feel as though Barnard attracted a lot of students interested more in academics for the sake of pre-professional advancement rather than any personal interest in/enjoyment of learning. In my classes there were a lot of conversations that sounded clever and witty on the surface, and a lot of people who knew how to make themselves look and sound very impressive, but little in the way of authentic deep thinking. The New York location also seems to attract people who place too much emphasis on fashion, trends, cliques, and parties (and drugs and excessive drinking), and I felt somewhat out of place. I know to some extent that any college is going to have some element of those attributes, but I want to find a school where I can feel more comfortable being myself and possibly be able to find more people like me who I can talk to.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, I have several other issues that are somewhat constraining my options. I eventually want to go to graduate school for architecture, and I originally picked Barnard because it provided relatively serious architecture classes within a liberal arts context. As I have been looking at other liberal arts schools it seems that a lot of them do not offer that subject, so I may have to sacrifice that area for the moment if need be - you can still go to architecture graduate school without majoring in it at the undergraduate level if you have some other artistic background. If I can't find a school with architecture, one with strong studio art and art history course offerings would be the next best thing.
I also to some extent was hoping to go to college in a reasonably urban location (or located near a city) - I grew up in the suburbs in Florida and got bored of it, and now that I'm in New York there are lots of opportunities for me to take advantage of. This would also be something that I might need to sacrifice, but I'd still prefer otherwise.
Also, and this is a less tangible factor, but after coming from Florida I'm not a particular fan of the cold. I managed to survive the winter in New York, but I don't think I want to go anywhere that is much colder. There are a few otherwise attractive liberal arts such as Carleton that I would not be able to consider because of their location. </p>
<p>Anyway, the list of places that have come to mind so far, although many of them don't quite meet all of my ideal criteria.
Reed
UChicago
New College - Appealing for several reasons - they have lots of options for independent study, I would be an hour and a half away from my family, and since it's a public school in Florida it would be free for me under the Bright Futures program. They don't seem to have as many course offerings, however.
Wesleyan in Connecticut - I also applied to them and got in during my original college applications
Bryn Mawr (? - I've heard that they are a more academically oriented women's college, and even applied to them before, but I am worried about being too isolated from men.)
Grinnell (? - have also heard that it's a bit of a party school)
Sarah Lawrence (?)
Oberlin
Hampshire (??? - I applied to them the first time around as a safety, and they place a lot of emphasis on independent study, but I don't know if they would be rigorous enough academically.)</p>
<p>My high school GPA was 3.98 and my SAT was 1390 (800 reading/590 math). My college GPA is around a 3.7 (I have 2 grades that I haven't received yet, but I don't expect them to significantly alter my average). Unfortunately my transcript also has some other quirks that I am afraid could hurt my admissions chances - in my first semester I took Calculus (required for architecture school) pass/fail, and I also have two withdrawals. One of the withdrawals was from a PE class for a health-related reason, but last semester I also withdrew from a 3pt Computer Science class. I am presently trying to take the CS class again this summer to hopefully put some sort of a band-aid on the situation, but the withdrawal is still going to be there. In any event I am going to have to spend at least another semester at Barnard (I hadn't applied for transfer admissions earlier but was holding out to see if I could get into an independent study program that I was rejected from), so I will hopefully have a chance to raise my grades and show some more stable academic performance. </p>
<p>I would like to consider some schools that are more selective, but I have doubts about my ability to get in (especially as a transfer) and also about whether or not they would attract the right kind of people for me - they might be preppy-academic but not necessarily intellectual-academic.</p>
<p>Let me know if you have any thoughts or suggestions about the colleges I'm considering, or other schools that I should look at.</p>