Hi all. I am a first year student at Fordham University’s Rose Hill campus. I was absolutely in love with this school when I was in high school, and I thought was my dream school. Without going into extreme detail, a lot has changed since then, and I am very unhappy here and am looking to transfer. I am just not clicking with the students here and it doesn’t feel like the place I want to spend the next three years. I am more miserable than I have ever been in my life and every day I spend here is like a battle not to run home and quit. I have no idea where to start with regards to transferring and what to do, because I never figured this would happen. I am just not the right student for Fordham. I don’t want to bash the school, because it really is a great place for some people, but for me, it has become a very negative place. I do not like the social scene or the surrounding area of the Bronx. I spend all my time alone in my room because I can’t seem to find any clubs of interest and I am not a partier. I’m really trying to make friends, and have made a few, but even with friends, the thought of staying here another three years makes me terrified. I am so disappointed with myself for this and I wish that I could just enjoy Fordham like I see so many other students doing. I got very, very depressed last semester and contemplated dropping out. I know college is supposed to be hard, but I can’t imagine anyone would be able to do it at all if it were as hard for everyone as it has been for me. I am very homesick here and if possible, would like to be closer to home (Boston).
Some facts about me:
I had a 3.6 cumulative GPA in high school (had a 4.0 junior/senior year of HS, but grades were not as strong fresh/soph year.)
1220 on my SATs
I was captain of my high school sailing team (and I sailed at Fordham this fall too)
I was in my school band
Participated in Ski Team
Have done a lot of volunteering with the ASPCA
I was president/founder of my High School’s animal welfare club.
This fall, I got a 3.4 GPA here at Fordham, and I am cautiously hoping for similar/better grades this semester.
With this in mind, some schools I am considering are Villanova, Boston College and Providence College. I have not visited any of the schools but am from Boston and both my sister and father attended graduate school at Boston College, so I am familiar with it. I realize that BC is a reach for me, but with it being so close to home, I feel like I need to apply, and I would also be able to try out for BC’s sailing team. I do not know much about Villanova and Providence College, but I thought that they were good peer schools to Fordham, and PC has the added benefit of being only an hour away from my house. I know Villanova is farther from Massachusetts, but I figured that if I was really happy there, I might not be aching to go home so much. I would love to hear what people think of these schools before I apply, as well as any other prospective schools that might fit me. Basically, I would like to be in or close to Boston, but would also consider a farther away school if it had a friendly student body and good academics. I also really like Catholic schools (I am catholic).
Thank you for taking the time to read this. I really appreciate the advice.