@notveryzen is absolutely correct. You are dreaming of a fictional university and you have to live there. Good luck! We live in San Diego and not one of my three children, who were all accepted there, were willing to go there.
So not only can you not afford it, you haven’t really seen if sacrificing your dollars will be worth it.
Careful what you wish for.
If you think that UCSD will be sunny beaches, tanned surfers, palm trees and perfect weather/life, you will be in for a shock.
The school is very diverse, not too many of those surfer types around.
It does not look like a typical “university”; lots of business-like glass buildings surrounded by tall eucalyptus trees.
Its coastal, so it gets a lot of fog that burns off in the afternoon.
Locally, it has always been known as UCSD (University of California for the Socially Dead). The locals know that if you go there, you can be expected to go to class, and that’s about it. No school spirit. So, you should be able to get good grades and a lot of studying done. A number of students here on CC say that it’s become more social, but that is not the gist I get from my son’s and daughter’s friends who attend and commute in. Yes, it is different for commuters, but that’s saying a lot if they really don’t want to stay on campus.
It is not a sports school.
It’s not on the beach.
It is up a cliff. If you want to get down to the beach in a short amount of time, drive down Torrey Pines Road or go to the glider port and glide down.
You had better find a friend with a car, because transportation is a bear.
It will be very expensive.
Your Daddy’s and your own cash will be paying for this experience; are you sure you want to shell out your savings for this?