<p>Hi Crabbylady, I have not seen you online in a while and so it is nice to see you again, and oh boy, if we all stay here long enough, we go through each others' second child too, lol. I hope your first daughter has enjoyed her college (my alma mater if I recall correctly). And just off topic for a moment but my older D (who just finished freshman year too) is in the middle of driving 4500 miles to your city! She left eight days ago and reached Lake Louise in Alberta, Canada today and will be in your town in six more days and spending a week in Alaska once there. So from my neck of the woods to yours, lol. </p>
<p>Back to your topic....being "undecided" going into college with regard to a major academic or career interest is the most common "major" out there on applications and is PERFECTLY fine and acceptable. This is NOT a problem. When picking colleges, she can go by other criteria like location, size, atmosphere, etc. and as long as the college has a wide array of offerings academically, she will be fine. </p>
<p>I have one kid who went off to college undecided but with some "direction" (more on that in a moment) and one who has a passion in one area and has known what she has wanted to study and do as a career for most of her life. I don't think one of these paths is better than the next but simply different. For many fields, a kid would not even know if he/she would like it because they have not been able to study it before college. One reason one of my kids KNOWS what she wants to focus on is because in her particular passion area, it is one that she HAS explored fully her whole life so far and does not have to wait to find out if she likes it. Her area is musical theater. But one cannot do that in certain fields until college or adulthood. </p>
<p>When I mentioned that the older D was undecided and actually likes many different subjects, I also mentioned "direction". I think, when applying to colleges, if a kid has narrowed it to a couple areas of broad interest or possibilities, that direction can be helpful but it is not like any commitment. This older D thought she might like to study architecture because it combined several areas of strength and interest but she could not be sure she wanted to study this because it was not a subject in high school. But by having this possibility in mind, she began to explore it a bit in 11th grade...did a year long independent study in the field and also did a summer internship with an architect, enough so that she felt this was a possible area of interest so she had to narrow the college list down somehow and once she added in architecture as a major that the school might have SHOULD she decide later on to study it, she was able to knock the list down as to who had this field. She was unwilling to entering a five year BArch program because she was NOT ready to commit to this field at age 17, nor did she want to be locked into a majority of her coursework being outlined FOR her...she had other stuff she also wanted to study. (Again, this is different for the kid with the lifelong passion who is more than happy to be entering a professional degree program that does take up a hefty part of her four year schedule). Anyway, she never said she WOULD major in architecture but had explored it some as a possibility and then took some related courses first year at college. She has plans next year to include a few more, including a course at RISD. By then, maybe she will be ready to decide on a major. This summer she is doing a six week intensive at Harvard Design School whose purpose is to have students immerse themselves into exploring this field and to enable them to decide if they want to go into the field before making the big commitment at some point. So, this is an example of an undecided kid who likes many subjects (but was always good at math and science) but who also began to think about possibilities or direction in 11th grade and did a few things like the independent study and internship to help her start to rule something in or out. She contemplated engineering for a bit but ruled that out. So, sometimes there are ways to explore some possible careers for ones' interests or strengths and the maybe narrow it from zillions of areas to a few. As long as the college has many liberal arts courses and a prettty good array of academic offerings, your daughter will be just fine.</p>