Trust me, it is not a “snub” to not be invited to honors. The honors college at Maryland is not like any other schools’ honors programs. Being invited to honors or not being invited to honors will not make or break your college experience.
It is a program, that if you complete it, you will get a citation on your transcript, end of story. Yes, it’s a great/very interesting program, and yes, it does offer some exclusive classes/experiences, but there are sooooo many other interesting programs/opportunities at Maryland, many of which you apply to after matriculation. Your experience at Maryland is not “less” if you don’t get invited to honors.
I speak from experience. My son was invited to honors elsewhere, but not at Maryland. Thanks to this forum, we learned Maryland honors was different and it was not a snub, but a question of fit.
Fast forward to graduation, my son had both departmental honors and latin honors (which were printed on his diploma for all to see), not just a citation on his transcript and graduation bling. As proud as I am of those accomplishments, the real success of his college career is that he started work right after graduation and has been completely (especially financially) self-sufficient and living on his own since.
The true success story of college does not end with where you were accepted and the program you are or are not invited to, but it marks where you start your journey. The true success is where you go from that starting line. It matters more what you do when you get to school. Do well, take advantage of every opportunity you can, participate to the fullest. When you are in college, no one cares that you graduated in the top 1% or 5% of your high school class, or got amazing standardized test scores, because a LOT of students at Maryland can say that.
Not everyone that was invited to honors college graduates with latin honors (cum laude, etc). Some see being admitted to honors college as the end game and just enjoy the ride. If you see yourself as an honors student, and do the work, you will earn honors at Maryland. Once you are admitted to departmental honors (or another honors program such as QUEST), you are able to sign up for honors seminars and h-version of classes, if you still so desire.
As for your interest in cybersecurity, “students who did not participate in the ACES Living-Learning Program but are interested in the ACES Minor are welcome to apply.” (http://www.aces.umd.edu/aces1/faq)
College admission is not the end game. College is a vehicle to learn the skills needed to be self-sufficient and develop a network of diverse friendships. I truly believe it does not matter where you go to school, but what you do when you get there. (Of course, I will tell you that Maryland is the most awesome school in general and offers the quintessential college experience…and I can give you hundreds of reasons why Maryland is better than other schools, haha)