<p>Ha Ha Ha. Just noticed that my wife posted under my name at almost the same time as I did. I am currently driving (on a bus) from NJ to Biloxi, Mississippi to help fix up Katrina houses (Church Youth Group - 50+ kids). I'm sitting here in a hotel in KY (halfway there!) and thought I'd check in on the CC from the hotel computer. Unknown to me the Misses was back home doing the same thing! :) Sorry for the confusion....</p>
<p>Dan</p>
<p>Dan - I sent you (actually your wife!!) a PM.</p>
<p>DO NOT TALK TO THE IG! He cannot help the situation and it will only make things worse if Mike wishes to come back next year. Outprocessing legitly takes a lot of time and paper. I know this frustrates you guys, but don't slam any doors shut now.</p>
<p>The IG will bring attention; but it will not likely end positively for anyone. you know what is best for your family. Hard as it is, and powerless much like everything in the past few weeks paying attention and letting this play through is best. I do think isolating them and not allowing participation in DDO is harsh at best. Sara saw Mike in church, and spoke to him briefly. We will be keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers over the next few days. hopefully they will get things done soon.</p>