Urgently need some guidelines: transfer , gap year

I can already tell this thread will be very long without even get started, so please let me apologize in advance, but I sincerely need some good advice for what I should do next.

Some background:

(1) Graduated highschool with good but not great stat (Sat: around 2000, Act: lower 30’s, GPA: about 3.8)
(2) Applied around 10 schools this year, but get rejected by almost all of them, from high reach to low match (except for one that i have no way afford to go)
(3.1) I know exactly what’s wrong with my application and what I did wrong strategically in the whole college admission process
(3.2) And the largest problem by far is I simply get to know about things too late and therefore have not prepare enough for the whole admission process
(4) If I have to go through all that again (and I wish to), I am confident that I can do at least thrice as good, either in general or test-score-wise.
(5) The only acceptance I have on hand are from some state school and a somewhat renowned, at least locally, foreign university (I will describe that in detail below), which are effectively my safeties.
(6) Whichever path I choose, I wish to eventually transfer back to my real top choices (namely, MIT and Rice). Call me unrealistic. I understand fully how difficult and how risky would that be, but I still want to aim for it.

So now, my choices are:

(1) Go with the foreign university for the first 2 years then transfer back to the US

This is originally the path that I tended to choose. Since one of the main defect of my application is that I don’t have enough significant experience, so I was think going to a foreign university will be a strong way to supplement that. But after cooling down from the emotion I got from all the rejections I received, and the more I think about it, the more I feel unsafe (and that’s essentially why I make this thread at this somewhat subtle point of time.)

The main concern I have in that school is that, unlike many of the American colleges, schools in there seldom use absolute grading. They curve essentially everything, and they try hard to control the number of A’s in every class. So it is not unusual that someone have an overall score of 9x% can only obtain a B – just because there have too many people above 9x%. Moreover, there are always some of those “testing-mechine” kind of people around, who, no matter how high or low you score, can always score perfect on everything. Given that the prime condition for me to successfully transfer is my GPA, together this is putting on me an incredible amount of pressure – I just can’t afford to lose my chance of transfer, just because the way they give grades.

**As a side note, I used to live in the country of that foreign school, so I have no problem integrating into the society and the culture in there nor do I have a problem in the language.

(2) Take a gap year, reapply to an instate school, then fight for transfer

Like I said earlier, I was originally planned to go to that foreign school, so I had not pay my deposit for saving my seat in the state universities that accepted me. And given that it is already that late in the college admission cycle, I will unavoidably have to take a gap year then reapply, if I were to stay in US.

And being a resident of Louisiana, I notice that I am quantify for a guarantee admission in Tulane University if I apply through EA. ( Which I haven’t notice last year when I first to apply, and I have confirmed with Tulane that I am still qualifying for this guarantee admission as long as I haven’t attend any other school) Of course, I can also reapply to those school who rejected me eariler, but I guess that will be nothing more than an meaningless suicide.

Then, in this case my concern will be having to take a gap year – I just have no plan or idea whatsoever for what to do in that gap year at the moment, nor do I know if that really worth to take at all. At least, everyone I talk to recently vote against that.

Moreover, having to stay in almost the same kind of place as in the past, I am kind of afraid that can’t provide me enough of an impact to significantly improve (or at worst, change) my application.

I don’t know. My whole situation is just getting so complicated that even writing that much still can’t fully present the whole situation. But I hope that can at least get me some feedback.

Sorry for bad grammar and typos. I am kind of tired while writing this, and I try to rush through it while keeping it short, so I may overlook some mistake.

Thank you.

If you need financial aid to make the places where you’d like to study affordable, then your best option is to take a gap year and apply to a new list (and maybe some of the original list) for Fall 2016. That will preserve your status as a freshman applicant and make you eligible for better merit-based aid. You can prep for the SAT and ACT and re-take them if you want to. It is not necessary for you to try to cure cancer during your gap year. If you just get a job so that you have some work experience, and perhaps do some volunteer work with an organization that you care about, that would be good enough.

One thing you could work on in a gap year would be perfecting your writing. Having a year when you can read a lot but not have to worry about a class, listen to NPR a lot, and watch a lot of PBS might be just the thing that you need to help push you to the next level.

Since it is your intent to complete your education in the US, and to start your career here, don’t attend the foreign university. It will be difficult for you to maintain the GPA that you would need to have in order to transfer into the places that you are targeting, it will be challenging to get good letters of recommendation from the professors there, and the credits will be messy to transfer. Not to mention of course that for the rest of your natural life you will have the recurring need to order up and translate copies of that transcript.

If you like the state universities that admitted you, pick up the phone, call them, and ask if your acceptance is still valid. They might be able to let you enroll for this fall.

I agree you are being unrealistic with your college choices. MIT has a <5% admit rate for transfers. Rice is about double that. Both are below the admit rate for freshmen. I agree with @happymomof1 that you need to work on your writing and see about getting your scores up. Either attend your in-state safety and do well there, see about heading to Rice or MIT for a graduate degree, or take a gap year and reapply to some more realistic options.

Thanks. Finance is not a problem at this stage. The tuition there is about the same as in my state university. Also, schools in there are based on English, so there have no need to translate anything. And I agree that I really need to work on my writing skill. I know how bad I am…

Whether or not I get transfer to those unrealistic choices, I am planning to graduate in US anyway. The requirements for transferring back to my state university is within a very reasonable range, so I am sure I can reach that even under the extremely competitive setting in that foreign school. But in this case, I guess the most reasonable way to go is really to start off from the state school directly and not to take the risk going to a foreign school looking for some illusion?

I think it is necessary for me to clarify what I really want. Personally, I would wish to have the experience in that foreign school but for a non-academic reason. It is just my personal wish to spend some time in there while I’m still a student and as a student in there. But at the same time, as I mentioned, I’m planned to eventually come back to the US, and not to mention that I’m still hoping to study in those of my “dream school” some day. So objective, it seem more reasonably to start from my state university or Tulane. So I guess I am just trying to be too greedy, and I am too afraid to choose either side…

You should investigate the possibility of completing a semester or year abroad at that foreign university. If you arrange it through your US university it will be easier to get the credits sorted out.