<p>Part of the discussion seems to be missing the context:
Even with the new NCLB exemption, for kids in the LAUSD, going to college -any college- can only happen if they are exceptionally driven and talented, or if they have a parent who will do nothing but keep at them. It’s a school district where a large percentage of students (about 40%) drop out and those who stay in school do, well, marginally, most of them getting D’s (which was a passing grade). In that school district, fewer than 20% have a 2.0 - OP’s son is probably top 15% if not close to top10% and must have learned to resist peer pressure in at least some classes. Fewer than 20% students in the school district take AP classes, and among those top students only 40% get a 3 or more. According to a recent Harvard study, only 16% LAUSD students qualify for CSUs - it’s even lower for African American students. That 2100 may have been the best SAT score the school had seen in years.
That’s why there’s holistic admissions guys :).
I hope OP’s son’s Guidance counselor will provide this context, but if not OP can make a bullet point list to make sure it is mentioned. :))</p>
<p>Not to say a 2.5 is good - it is problematic, but I think OP realizes it; 2.5 + 2100 will require an explanation so that he’s not termed “lazy underachiever”; some schools in LAUSD are better than others (Op’s son may go to a specialized high school that graduates most of its freshmen, for example, or one of the technical schools where AP science and calculus is routinely offered) and many people who work there are incredibly dedicated…but OP is right to be driving this search, to look for information for her son, and to be strict with him. Overwhelming odds are against him and as many pointed out, his mother being his advocate is his greatest asset. The teachers and guidance counselors are probably trying to help too but they may well be overwhelmed. He has to be involved in the search, of course, but he can’t pilot it. “Finding your way”, “figuring it out on your own” isn’t an option there. He should be involved in explaining how he envisions himself next year: on a big campus where big sports are important? at a school near/in a city for internships and entertainment opportunities ? at a college in the middle of nowhere where therefore everything happens on campus to the point you can’t possibly do everything you’d like to do? Does he want his college male-only (few colleges are) or would he rather attend a coed school? How about diversity? How comfortable is he being far away from home - and how far is “far”, is it 4 hours by car, 4 hours by plane, accross the country?</p>
<p>In addition, it means that attending a college where academic support, peer mentoring, first gen or URM support… are strong is very important. This is something that should be checked out thoroughly and pleads for either a school with deep pockets or a smaller school where there’s constant stimulation and tracking of students (so that he doesn’t fall through the cracks). Any top school will challenge him, which is great, but at first it may be a little overwhelming, so support is essential. Furthermore, there is one category of students for whom where they attend college does matter, and it’s first gen/immigrant/URM students. So, essentially, for these reasons, OP is right to look at some of the schools she’s looking at (top-notch private universities will have more money and more support available than UC Merced).
It seems to me that we need to help her find schools that offer similar support (both financial and academic) so that her son has everything helping him reach his potential rather than flounder, and graduates with a recognized degree that will lead him to the good job he is capable of having - yet are less selective than some of the reaches on the list.
Also, how about Rolling Admissions schools and Early Action schools that would fit? OP’s son would have a few admission decisions by mid December and would be able to judge his chances better ( keep aiming high? aim higher? aim lower? aim differently?)</p>
<p>I agree with other posters that engineering may not be the best choice though. It’s incredibly tough, not only to get into, but to “survive” and graduate from. The “weed out” factor may be bigger depending on campus so how “nurturing” and encouraging the Engineering program is, or how “Sink or Swim”, is I think a criterion people in-the-know should communicate. There are lots of engineers and scientists on CC, I’m sure they can offer contrasting experiences.
A better bet may be a math, CS, or physics major, which may be complemented by graduate engineering work. Or a major in Economics, with a minor in math. In addition, these majors will open up a lot of schools that would love to have OP’s son - in the Midwest and MidAtlantic region, not to mention New England. Schools that aren’t engineering schools but are well-recognized and overall academically challenging, support as well as challenge, offer good financial aid, are strong in math or CS or chemistry or physics, and are trying to recruit bright AA young men (as long as your son doesn’t mind being in schools that aren’t nearly as diverse as what he’s used to.)</p>
<p>OP: you said your son really likes math - what’s the highest math class he’s taken?
(The new, “tough” requirement for LAUSD graduates is algebra2 - has he taken classes beyond that new requirement?)
You also mentioned your soon-to-be ex-husband graduated from Cornell - from what college (whether you son applies to his father’s college or to another one will likely impact how his application is treated. I don’t know if an ILR legacy is considered legacy for COE admissions for example).</p>