<p>Thank you for all of your thoughts and comments. I am the OP, and I have responses/thoughts about a few posts.</p>
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Poster Comment:
Only “East Coast provincialists” write WUSTL.</li>
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<p>My Response:
If you have visited their website, you have written it too. It is: wustl.edu. </p>
<p>2.
My Prior Comment:
I don’t see how they can teach you as much as MIT and Penn without being as demanding and stressful </p>
<p>Poster Comment:
This is dead wrong. The outcomes of learning has nothing to do with demanding and stress. “Being as demanding and stressful” does no guarantee of digesting and inquiring learning materials.</p>
<p>My response:
The point I intended to make with the original comment, and perhaps worded poorly, was specific to WUSTL, Penn and MIT and not a general comment. I expressed to a counselor that I was concerned that in Finance and Computer Science majors, (those are her 2 interest areas) WUSTL students may not be as strong or as well educated, and may have more limited access to internships, jobs and future opportunities compared to students who attended schools with stronger brands such as Penn or MIT (two other schools on the short list). Please note that I am not representing this as a fact, just a concern. </p>
<p>In response, it was asserted to me that WUSTL is a place where you get just as good of an education as Penn or MIT, on a better campus, and without having to go through all the demands and stress that those two colleges put on students. So you have fun, don’t have to study so hard and be stressed out, but you learn just as much, and get the same opportunities. What student wouldn’t want to go to a school like that? The only evidence provided, however, was that if they weren’t doing that good of a job, they would not be #14 in US News.</p>
<p>I think that WUSTL is being oversold to her. I am trying to better understand the degree to which that may be the case. I have no interest in attacking WUSTL generally. Just in understanding the facts to support my daughter.</p>
<p>3.
Poster Comment:
What’s really important is that your daughter likes it, the campus is beautiful, she’s happy with it.</p>
<p>My response:
This is the type of comment that is causing me anxiety because, in my opinion, it is guiding my daughter down the wrong path. To me, that momentary happiness is good, but not sufficient. If she is investing 4 years of life in this college, and I am investing $200K+ (that is a whole lot of money to me), then I want her to come away with something that benefits her for her whole life, and not just those 4 years. In addition, I recently read that 53% of recent undergraduates are unemployed or underemployed in the US. To me that implies that it is very important to choose your school and major thoughtfully, since we aren’t rich. I am fine with appearance being a factor, but I don’t think it should be the primary one.</p>
<p>Any additional thoughts would be appreciated.</p>
<p>Much2learn</p>