Vassar....advice please!

<p>Vassar is my top choice, but I'm fairly sure it's a reach school for me. My GPA (UW) is around 3.4/3.5, and I'm in all honors/AP classes except for math. I haven't taken the SAT yet, but I think I can do pretty well, just based on my PSAT scores. Here are my extracurriculurs:
private viola lessons
sophisticated strings club (aiming for officer position senior year)
art club
school orchestra, and next year district orchestra
montgomery county orchestra
string quartet at settlement music school, but not for all 4 years
psychology club (co-pres)
student aide at my hebrew school
gratz hebrew high (9th & 10th grades)
competitive dance (performing on a cruise this summer :]!)
teacher at a summer art camp
volunteer at Abramson Center (retirement home)</p>

<p>and the biggie... I set up a presentation about Darfur at my synagogue (contacted speakers, set up a presentation with them, put up banners, raised money with t-shirt decorating fundraiser & bake sale, etc.)...a few people have told me that that will help me get into college</p>

<p>please tell me what you think my chances are...I really love Vassar but I'm also looking at F & M, Muhlenberg, Bard, Wesleyan, U of Delaware, U of Maryland, and Penn State @ University Park</p>

<p>i forgot one more activity...I applied to a program called TAPTeens and was accepted...it's a program that teaches jewish teens how to teach disabled students in sunday school</p>