Hi:
So I am an incoming freshman to one of the two schools above. I am extremely confused on which to go to and which will help me accomplish my long term goals. First off, I am a straight male. I visited Vassar at the admitted students day a couple weeks ago and thought it was great. The girls were literally beautiful, the athletics seemed alright, the campus was really cool looking, and the people all seemed really friendly. The few things that turned me off was the apparently (from what I’ve heard) disproportionately large gay population; don’t get me wrong, I have gay friends but I still want to be able to date girls at whatever school I go to. It also seemed that there really was nothing to do in Poughkeepsie. I am a really friendly and outgoing guy and I don’t particularly want to be confined. That being said, it seems like Vassar has a really strong sense of community which I really liked and it seemed like they also offer many opportunities to meet people. I would be going for the dual engineering degree program with Dartmouth. I was kind of confused about that though. I know that you get a BE from Dartmouth and a BA from Vassar after 5 years in total. (2 and 3, respectively) I also heard that you can get a masters of engineering management from Dartmouth after an additional fifteen months after your fifth year. My long term goal is to become a CEO of a tech company and I am very interested in electrical engineering. I got accepted into Cooper Union from the waitlist on May 2nd. (I have until the 9th to decide) I just saw the school today and I liked it quite a lot. I definitely was a fan of the location, (in that it is in the city and therefore presents more opportunities to the outgoing) I think it has a more well respected engineering program than Dartmouth-Vassar, and my tour guide seemed very laid back and knew what he was talking about. I am concerned however with the lack of community that Cooper Union seemed to have and the lack of groups and fun things to do. (It seemed very hard work-no play oriented) I didn’t get to see inside the library so I would like some insight on that as well if anyone has experience with the library. I am a more athletic type of person and when I asked about athletic facilities, the tour guide seemed to dodge the questions by saying that people in the school have memberships in local gyms. The classrooms seemed a bit more updated than those at Vassar, though that might just be the industrial look from the city. I live on Long Island so I have lots of experience with the city as well and am comfortable in it. The last thing about Cooper Union was that I literally saw 2 people today who were obviously students, both of whom were guys. The place was totally deserted there. Are the girls at Cooper Union pretty as well? Are there many more kinds of opportunities are presented in the city? Which school is more likely to help me accomplish my long term goals? The Vassar Dartmouth program is not certain but I am fairly confident of my ability to get in the program. I am a bit scared that if I don’t get in the program however, I’ll end up with a BA in some subject I could care less about and not know anything about engineering while if I go to CU, I’ll at least end up with an engineering degree of some kind. I think CU is slightly more prestigious as well but I am not sure. Both are drastically different but I really liked both of them. If anyone could help provide some more insight into either school, it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks so much and best of luck to anyone going to college this year.