<p>My daughter has visited all the schools on her audition list except 1 (U of Oklahoma – too far and she would not know if she could audition there unless called back from Unifieds). Most of her auditions are on campus as well. We did this for a couple of reasons. One, when she was a sophomore/junior (when we did a lot of visits), she wast sure she wanted MT, but not positive about the type of program (big/small, city/not…) she wanted. Meeting with faculty and students, seeing classes, etc really helped her with the list – and we visited several schools that seemed perfect…until she set foot on campus. With a college visit, you’re just window shopping – no stress. Knowing that some of the schools moved to a “no” list saved application fees and stress, and helped her really focus on the “yes” schools. </p>
<p>We’re heading to campus as much as possible because kiddo is a very strong dancer, and wants to be able to have the full dance call, in a studio, rather than either none or a hotel ballroom (I hear that some of the schools at Unifieds do rent a local dance studio…). </p>
<p>Finally, she worked really hard on her final list to find the 9 schools out there that clicked for her – professors, program, academics, location, etc. Ask her, and she does not have a “favorite” or “if I don’t get into X school, I’ll die”. That’s been helpful in this crazy year (auditons #5 and 6 this weekend…). She continues to reiterate that she could see herself happily at any of the 9.</p>
<p>Yes, it involved a lot of travel and some expense, but in the long run, much cheaper than d finding out that she hated a school she thought (from viewbooks, talking to others, etc) would be a good fit. </p>
<p>However, I think each family has to do what’s right for them. Strongly defining schools, programs, etc was incredibly helpful for us (she had a “prescreening audition” for the colleges!) Did it make her instantly “known,” having met with the professors beforehand? Don’t think so at all. But it made her know what and why she chose that school for an audition. I’ve sat in the “mother room” at a few auditions and, as parents talk (and you realize who you’re going to be hanging out with at the next city!) have heard of kids scheduling upwards of 20 auditions without knowing about the school except for its name/reputation. When asked why X school is on the list, unable to really say except “I hear it’s a good school.” For my kiddo, there were certain criteria she insisted on (strong dance, interesting academic options/honors…) that helped focus the list. (And besides, the poor kid wrote enough application essays, and I paid enough in app fees with the 9!)</p>
<p>Now she’s making noises about visiting again after acceptance(s) arrive. I think that’s a good thing, too, as your view changes from “I wonder if this school might be a good one for me” to “I wonder how I will fit in here.”</p>