So some frequent CCers know me as one of the “Middlebury Moms”, and I like to post about certain topics which greatly affected my family. My 2 sons are graduates of Midd, 2014 and 2013.5, and as many people know, my oldest was “the boy of the wait-lists”.
Without belaboring the point too much, he was a very high scoring straight A IB diploma newspaper editor with many awards under his belt, but fate sent him 5 wait lists and 2 rejections- Harvard(no ED that year), Dartmouth, Amherst, Tufts(TUFTS), and Midd, with Princeton and Williams rejecting him outright. It was an DREADFUL heart-wrenching week, where he couldn’t even attend school by the end of it he was so upset and depressed. In the second week of May, he got the joyful phone call, and the 24 hours to make his decision, and while it was an awful month for him, it all turned out in the end.
The first thing I want to tell all the wait-listed students is that you are QUALIFIED, just not LUCKY! There are SO many qualified kids, that many deserving and perfectly capable candidates have to be waitlisted. So please DON’T feel less worthy! I hope you all have safeties, or at least not the dreadful luck of my number one son!
Second, if you are on the waitlist and don’t REALLY want to go to Midd, please give up your spot!
Third, if you really want to go to Midd, let them know! Write a new cover letter, send an updated transcript, and any supplement that helps your case. If you know anyone with a connection, reach out to them and see if they can help by calling or writing a letter of recommendation.Ask your guidance counselor to call for you and see what was lacking, and express your deep, sincere, and continued interest.
Recent Stats from the Common Data set:
Class of 2018- 1525 offered waitlist, 663 accepted waitlist, 1 offered acceptance(ugh)
Class of 2017- 1705 offered waitlist, 757 accepted waitlist, 0 offered acceptance(double ugh)
Class of 2016- 1679 offered waitlist, 611 accepted waitlist, 78 offered acceptance(that’s a bit more optimism-inducing)
Class of 2015- 2114 offered waitlist, 1006 accepted waitlist, 20 offered acceptance
Class of 2014- 1958 offered waitlist, 864 accepted waitlist, 134 offered acceptance
and my DS’ year, 1527 offered, 756 accepted waitlist, 42 offered a place in the class
I can’t find the number of waitlist spot offered for 2019 yet, but you can see, the odds vary very widely from year to year.
So please try and realize that anyone as qualified as you, even if you are waitlisted, has a great career ahead of you wherever you attend! Make the best of your college years and don’t let a set back like this define you! I didn’t go to Middlebury, and I turned out just fine! ; )