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<li>Don’t assume you’ll get a good or bad financial aid</li>
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I remember posting a thread about what schools I was applying to and my financial situation (upper middle class, parents didn’t really save for my education) and many posters were telling me I wouldn’t get good financial aid with my stats. They said that OOS publics are bad with financial aid and I probably wouldn’t get any. Guess what? The OOS public school I’m going to this fall gave me the best financial package! I also assumed I’d get good financial aid from one college because I was a female majoring in computer science at a predominantly male school, but alas, the school I thought would give me great financial aid gave me zero.
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<li>Aim for the stars!</li>
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If you can afford it, try to apply to schools that you don’t think you can get into. I remember being scared of applying to Ivy League schools because I knew I’d be rejected. So I didn’t. A part of me regrets not applying to these schools. Maybe a miracle would have happened! Oh well… which brings me to my next point!
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<li>Don’t regret your college choices</li>
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After applying to colleges in January, I was happy with my choices. Then as time went on I started hating some of the schools I applied to and regretted not applying to other schools. Why didn’t I apply to Northwestern? Vanderbilt looks so pretty, why didn’t I apply? Then I remembered that I made my choices for a reason and didn’t apply to other schools for a reason. Trust yourself! Also, If you don’t want to stress yourself unnecessarily don’t go on Collegeconfidential until you get your college decision. I would have been so much less stressed!
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<li>Don’t base your college choices on other people</li>
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Sure, everyone wants to be known as the girl/guy that got into <em>insert top 25 school here</em> but really, does it matter that much? Who cares if people are impressed by your school. Just make the right decision for you! Going to a certain school certainly doesn’t make you more successful in life. My friend’s dad went to MIT and their family doesn’t make that much money, my dad went to some unknown college in Arizona and makes a lot more money. (Not trying to be braggy, just making a point! lol) Go where you’ll be happy and remember that a college can’t make you successful, you have to do that yourself.
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<li>Make sure the social atmosphere fits you</li>
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Your social life in college is very important. Obviously, academics is the most important but if one of them is lacking your college experience can get bad fast. Make sure you’ll fit in with the “vibe” at the school. One of the school’s I applied to gave off a very “monied” vibe and I didn’t really want to experience that in college. There will always be people who don’t fit into school stereotypes but you might have to look harder to find them.
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<li>Ignore the whiners on CC</li>
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Oh boo hoo I didn’t get into Harvard with my perfect SAT score, 20 billion E.C activities, top boarding school, and my essay comparing Nietzsche to Machiavelli. LIFE GOES ON! Don’t feel bad (like I did) because other people on CC feel a need to whine about how they “only” got accepted to Brown when they wanted to go to Stanford. It sure made me feel inferior to others who always bragged about their accomplishments. The sooner you learn that life doesn’t always go perfectly the better! Not going to a certain school doesn’t automatically bar you from being successful or getting a job at <em>insert Fortune 500 company</em> here. Well maybe in Wall Street or Big Law but we’re not talking about that.
Alright enough tips for today, I’M OUT