<p>OK, Dads and Moms, I'll be very cautious how I phrase this.</p>
<p>I've asked a few questions earlier and am very grateful for the answers. This forum is the best at what it provides on the Web, bar none, that I've found. So here's another question:</p>
<p>My Bass II-singing, visual arts-loving son's a very conservative young man at this point in time, prior to his HS senior year...I don't want to bore anyone here with describing him by any other way than saying it's the truth. I went to both a small liberal arts college and a big state school for college in the late 70s and early 80s and remember how things were back then. My Mother, who's a JFK-era liberal and retired teacher, shocked me when she said she could not finish Tom Wolfe's extensively-researched-at-multiple-early-2000s-American-universities book "My name is Charlotte Simmons" because it was too intense in terms of morality and promiscuity, so I'm guessing that at best things haven't changed much.</p>
<p>Christians are supposed to be in the world, just not of it. (John</a> 17:14-18). By the same token, I cannot and must not shield my son from the world for the rest of my life - I have to let him go to make his own choices, mistakes and successes, although I'll always be behind him for advice and a hug. With that said, it's understood that there are a lot of people, probably the majority, both in the performing arts community and in life that may not share many of his views, and he needs to be aware of it and to be able to function in it (while still adhering to his own principles) once he leaves college and becomes a musician and artist if that's where he's meant to be.</p>
<p>However, given that college is such a key time in the maturation of many children, I, like the rest of us, want my child to be comfortable wherever he lands. That may or may not involve being enrolled in a more-to-very conservative school. We've got some strong personal reasons for this question, as well. My beautiful "D" is a very talented artistic child who was miserable in public school, and was actually hospitalized for a bit in junior high with major depression. She was terrified of going back to public school although we and her teachers had taken a lot of measures on her behalf, and spent her high school time at a group Christian homeschool. Not for everyone, but it worked out very well for her. She begged my wife and I: "Don't put (our very kind-hearted son) at my old school. They'll tear him up!", referring to the junior-high tormentors she used to fear. My son and I actually prayed about this decision, and visited some Christian high schools in the area. While the kids at the latter schools were nice, my son said at the end of his last visit: "Dad, I don't feel led anywhere but (his sister's old school)", and that was the end of it. From the first day he enrolled things went very well for him, and his first choral teacher there (now studying for her doctorate at Michigan State) really helped start him into the music success he's enjoyed there and at his public high school in a smaller southern state which, though we were neither aware of it nor were thinking we'd be interested in it, may have one of the best vocal music programs for a public school between New York and Los Angeles.</p>
<p>So, a politically conservative school with a good music program (I'm guessing there are a few out there) may not be the place for my son. But if possible I want to be aware of any options. We've visited Baylor - it's, as I understand, not conservative like it may have once been but does have a strong music department. Same with Belmont out of Nashville, which has a strong commercial music program (not the career route my son is interested in so far, but he was very impressed by the music students there). I like Texas Christian University and their music program/facilities but I'd be shocked if it wasn't more "leftward" than BU. The rest of the schools we've visited are pretty much secular, with many DANDY choral and vocal departments. My son may end up at any one of them.</p>
<p>Any suggestions on other schools which might fit the criteria of my thread title here?</p>
<p>(One last note - neither I nor anyone else wants a thread on politics here. It would be against forum rules, and would also deter from all the fine college/music information for parents thats being provided. I'm just curious on school suggestions. Thanks in advance, all.)</p>