Perhaps it is statements like:
quote Men have set the tests and standards for years, and congratulated themselves for achieving at their own game.
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That sure rubbed me the wrong way, and I am not white. Maybe I am being too PC and should get over it? :-/
@fretfulmother - I canāt say why others may have made you a lightning rod but I have made you a lightning rod because you have accused the OP (a kid) of being a racist, sexist and homophobe without a single shred of evidence that he (she?) is any of those things.
Need a safe space, @hebeglebe? 
BTW, crickets are still chirping on my question in #92.
Iām curious about the response from the other side about #92 as well
@hebegebe Let us explore that more. Why do you feel offended by it? Thereās still a gender pay gap, thereās still institutional racism in our laws and prison system. Itās definitely a straight white mansā world. Iām a straight white male and I can see that.