<p>I'm only 5'7-5'8, and i'm a guy. so the limit for me is 5'7-5'8. above that, i wouldnt even try b/c i probably have zero chance, as most girls prefer taller men. i look much taller in front of a short girl, that makes me happy.:)</p>
<p>a tall (good-looking, of course) girl is definately a turn-on for me. I guess it's because I'm 6'2" and don't wanna have to look down to talk to a girl, or bend down just to kiss (very annoying!)</p>
<p>Well, I'm blonde, blue-eyed, 5'6 and thin but I only attract a proportionate number of guys compared to everyone else. It appears to me that my physicality is constantly under attack when I don't really do anything to obtain it. I've never restricted my diet. I don't dye my hair. I just have a Scotch-Irish descent. It seems to me that overly tanned brunettes are considered the most attractive.</p>
<p>(And one final note: My lips are quite full and if anything, I would look into having them reduced. I don't particularly find that attractive at all...)</p>
<p>true though that this thread does seem pretty stupid. Especially, if someone's actually concerned with learning what college boys like...my high school experience is pretty much that guys are mighty shallow. Hopefully, college boys (atleast a few of them) are a bit better.</p>
<p>"Does excessive weight not equal these things? The only valid reason I can think of for a person to be overweight is if they have a health problem preventing them from changing this. It's not as if an overweight person can't choose to lose weight, unless they have a health issue, they can."</p>
<p>Dude, of course not. If someone isnt thin it doesnt have to mean they dont have the willpower and smarts to slim down. It can also mean that they dont care much about it. No everyone bends over to peer pressure. However, other people tend to look at this person and think that poor slob or something of the kind which can be very far from truth.</p>
<p>Consider two college girls of same height, same abilities, and same major. Girl #1 is Asian. She eats on-campus every day and often orders from the American food section (i.e. burgers, fries, various fried junk food). Despite eating three things per meal at each time and drinking a sugary drink, which equals to clearly consuming too many calories for her, she keeps a perfect 120 pound weight. Girl #2 is white. She also orders from the American food section close to every day. She eats as much as girl #1 but her weight climbs up proportionally. Whatever she eats in excess, her body puts away as fat. Her upper weight limit is much higher than that of girl #1 and therefore she ends up gaining extra 20 pounds. The above two girls I mentioned represent two girls Ive known in real life.</p>
<p>Solution for girl #2 to make herself look in a way that our society thinks is attractive and smart consists of the following: she probably has to read a few books on dieting and read some online forums about it once in a while, she'll pay visits the local nutritionist, shell start counting calories for every meal, shell go to the gym for nearly an hour every other day, she might try throwing up after she eats too and become bulimic, or she might exercise herself to complete exhaustion each day. All of the above not only will take up a good deal of her free time each day but will also consume her thought process. So while girl #1 can concern with other things, think about academics or dating or shopping, girl #2 is stuck spending this extra time planning out what she eats every time and making time for gym in her schedule. Some girls say: I dont give a **** and I dont want to worry about all of the above mentioned crap. Which clearly does not mean that they dont have the willpower or intelligence to accomplish it. Neither do they have a medical problem.</p>
<p>Your wrong kihyle, is it honestly that hard to say to oneself "Im not gonna eat junk food 4 days out of every week, but instead, some salad and fruit and juice and that jazz." Not too hard huh? And exercising, all u really need to do to lose weight is exercise for 30 min a day, u can just do a short bike ride or something. Losing weight is not that big of a deal. And yes, most of the time, being fat does show laziness and whatnot.</p>