<p>Ok so I've taken an interest in a girl who I can tell has little to no experience with boys. I was pretty confident that she was interested because she's very talkative/jokes around a lot with me, but is very quiet with her other friends at school. This weekend I got a text that definitely threw me off though. It read "Why are you so nice? it kind of makes me suspicious haha" I just played it off lamely "lol you're really nice, should I be suspicious of you?" and the conversation continued. In my mind I took that as definitely bad, but my friends who I told about it all say it could actually mean that I seem too good to be true and she's waiting for me to turn into a jerk. Usually I have no problem reading girls, but I think this stems from me usually going for party girls, and this one being something completely different. Any advice as to how I should interpret this?</p>
<p>Say, “I’m nice b/c I like you!” Get to the point! =D </p>
<p>I believe your friends are dead on! Have some fun and start flirting with her/go on a date perhaps?</p>
<p>I agree with your friends. She could also be trying to get you to come out and say you like her, maybe she’s too shy to make the first move.</p>
<p>Well, you could ask her what she meant by her comment. Or, just ask her out and see where it goes from there.</p>
<p>Rule #1: Don’t constantly be nice. </p>
<p>You need to know when to be witty and/or make light jokes at her. That doesn’t mean you should be a jerk (please don’t), but you also shouldn’t be willing to go out of your way for everything.</p>
<p>And your answer probably should have been something along the lines of: “What, would you rather me be mean? Because that could be arranged…”</p>
<p>Your friends are right; she’s into you. Now move in for the kill…</p>
<p>lol awesome, i hope you’re all right cause i’m definitely into this girl. and to poster above i know not to be constantly nice and we joke around a lot, her comments stemmed from the fact that i offered to give her a ride home from a review session cause it was pouring rain and i told her i’d cook her a meal sometime.</p>
<p>So we were talking today and she was like you’d be so proud I almost went out this weekend but I didn’t cause I heard that frat has lame parties. so in a playful way i asked her to come to a party that the frat my friends are in and i will be pledging and she said how about me and 2 or 3 of my friends.</p>
<p>I’m hoping that means, well i’ve never been to a college party before/ never hung out with you outside of class so i’m going to bring friends to be safe and not oh yea you’re just one of my friends. any thoughts on this?</p>
<p>That’s a little weird, I wouldn’t have done that. Maybe she doesn’t know any better or realize that you might have meant it as some sort of a date, or maybe she wants to get her friends opinion on you, or maybe she just knew her friends would have really wanted to go. I am not a big partier myself and while I would be willing to go to one with a friend I think I’d be uncomfortable just going with a guy I was trying to get with-- along the lines of your last sentence. It could be any number of things, especially since you say she’s inexperienced with men. When I was a freshman I did some pretty silly things and didn’t realize until later I was sending totally the wrong signals.</p>
<p>I would suggest just going with it for now and trying something more just the two of you next time. If her friends do come along, be kind and courteous to them. While she and her ego will want most of the attention and she should get it, she will notice how you treat them.</p>
<p>She is in to you and wants you to make a move. Make a move. Now.</p>
<p>From what I can tell you’ve been friendzoned, but don’t take my advice; of all the people here you’re in the best position to read her, even if she’s unreadable.</p>
<p>^i dont think he is in the friend zone yet. he will be soon if he does not man up and make it clear what his intentions are.</p>
<p>haha thanks for all the advice and please keep it coming. I’m pretty confident unless things go poorly at the party that I’m going to go for it this weekend.</p>
<p>I would recommend buying a large cork board and a white board and pin them up on your wall. Also buy a comfortable chair and set it back about 5ft facing your wall. You can then write down everything she says and post it up on the wall and then sit down and analyze it. This way you won’t miss any possible thing she may be implying every time she opens her mouth.</p>
<p>^^ lulz 10char.</p>
<p>One thing to know… You should almost never assume that girls know less than guys. There are many things that could be happening. Don’t take this situation too seriously, treat her as another friend of yours because you might just be a dummy for her game. That’s my opinion though, do not let her lead you.</p>