Hi Duke people and alumni. This summer is going by really fast and I’m getting anxious about moving away. I don’t know what to expect on move in day at Duke besides leaving my family for a long time. I was very happy when I got accepted into one of my dream schools and a full scholarship to go there. With that, I would not let that opportunity pass and I’m the first in my family to attend college. I feel my parents can’t wait for me to move out so they don’t have to pay for my education and not worry about me. They never had the college experience so that’s why they can’t tell me anything about it but support me all the way. I knew Duke was right for me as soon as I got there for blue devil days but my parents did not come. They always tell me they’re glad to have a child who is capable of getting into Duke even though they can barely support me alone. I’m just wondering what to expect at Duke such as meeting my roommate for the first time, bringing linens, furniture, and etc.
@Mustang2k16, I am responding as a parent of a Duke rising sophomore. First, congratulations! You have an extraordinary opportunity. And Duke obviously thinks you are up to the task.
Second, I’m sure you’ve received your Blue Book and orientation schedule. Duke does an amazing job of laying out everything that you need to know. With regard to what you need to bring such as linens, I’m sure that is spelled out in the Blue Book or online. You don’t need to bring furniture: your bed, desk, chair, and closet (or wardrobe) are provided. If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to contact the relevant person at Duke–housing, academic, or whatever area.
Third, at move-in, Duke mobilizes a small army of students who will move ALL of your belongings into your room. Just show up at the time and location they send you. The orientation schedule gives you the opportunity to learn about Duke and meet people on your hall and in your dorm. Your RAs will help answer any questions you have. When you receive your roommate’s contact information, contact your roommate by e-mail, Facebook, telephone, or other manner.
Fourth, everyone is at least a little nervous, both students and parents. The orientation process is designed to alleviate your concerns. Duke has made a big commitment to first generation students and really wants you to succeed. Early on, you should reach out to take advantage of all of the help offered. Seek out tutoring and study groups. (This advice is valid for everyone, not just first generation.)
Best of luck. Hopefully, students with better knowledge will weigh in.
@wstrav thank you very much. I am reading my blue book and looking over my schedule. You helped eased my anxiety a bit but I know that you know what to expect. My parents are starting to realize that I’m actually going to be leaving soon for college. I didn’t know parents were on here but I’m sure it’s nice to be a parent of a Duke child.