What to give/say to my LOR writer?

Pre-College Issues High School Life
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<p>So I have chosen my LOR writers already and they have both accepted my request. I'm a junior this year and will be a senior next year. Both teachers don't know me very well and I'm not particularly outstanding in their classes, maybe a B+/A- student in their classes? I am kind of shy and quiet so it is difficult for me to have conversations with them but I am going to change that.</p>

<p>The thing I'm confused about is what should I go talk to them about. I understand I have to tell them what colleges I'm going to apply to, if necessary the envelopes and stamps, and etc. But those things come later, like senior year.</p>

<p>How can I open up to them this year to let them know me a little. I've read somewhere that I should give them my resume and a sample of my college essay? Should I do that this year? One of my LOR writer said to meet up with him every week (keep in mind that I no longer take his class). What should I talk to him about and how should I open up the conversations? Abruptly or somehow lead up to certain topics?</p>

<p>What can I do to improve my relationships with my LOR writers in preparation for the letters in senior year. </p>

<p>Also, what time do they usually start writing the letters? Right away, over the summer, or right before the deadlines? Do they draft the letters first?</p>

<p>Thank you to whoever answers!</p>

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<p>I always thought the consensus was that you ask for LORs for college in senior year.
I think you asked a little early…</p>

<p>Oh and also, always have an answer to the typical “what are you doing these days?” </p>

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<p>I disagree with @DigitalKing. My GC actually told my grade (junior year as well) to start asking for LORs a few days ago. While I think April is a bit early, I’ve heard that you should ask before the end of junior year. As for when the teacher writes the LOR, it really depends on the teacher. You should ask them when they would write it, and if they want a copy of your resume, a list of achievements, or some examples of work you’ve done in their class.</p>